Kristen
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Arya ♈️ :
guess what? I live without love and I am still alive! It’s definitely NOT a need
2026-07-06 23:21:12
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Susan McM🇨🇦 :
Love that
2026-07-09 22:09:08
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Tina :
Needs are things you do for yourself a want is something you gain from the external you cannot have a need from another human
2026-07-07 01:46:35
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Emily 🆘🇺🇸 :
Air, water, food, sleep.
2026-07-07 15:00:12
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Miah :
Thank you for this. I realised as I listened that my partner has been approaching it as connection and love and I haven’t. This is life changing advice.
2026-07-07 14:22:05
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scorpiondeathlock :
There is a book and workbook called Come As You Are. Highly recommend. It is such an easy read and very important for anyyy age.
2026-07-08 15:28:53
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Rosie’smum :
Oh my goodness, I wish I’d heard this 30 years ago, what a difference it would’ve made to me and maybe even my marriage
2026-07-07 08:23:16
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Tracy Moore 🇨🇦 🇯🇲 :
I’m enjoying these Ted talks more and more 👏🏾
2026-07-08 17:34:27
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reachmefam :
is this really worth it
2026-07-07 10:03:04
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Vheri Sheri :
My last bf literally said having sex was how he felt loved. It was unnerving.
2026-07-06 23:40:22
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Nathalie :
I would also add the need for sleep
2026-07-06 20:19:45
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Everyday Valkyrie :
also deconstruct the hierarchy of intimacy. as I am exploring my asexuality, realizing that there are many forms of intimate connection without having all of it culminate in sexual penetration and orgasm. it will change how you view connection and relationships
2026-07-07 14:17:43
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Fran 💜✨🌙 :
What about the need to sleep
2026-07-07 02:04:45
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Kitten in the Clouud :
5) sleep
2026-07-06 21:34:06
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MJ :
My son's father expected me to have sex immediately after giving vaginal birth. I had level 2 and 3 tears. I needed stitches. he was angry that I refused. that I wasn't in the "mood". my crotch was on fire, torn, and stitched. 😒 he still forced himself on me in the first few weeks post pardom. it was disgusting and painful. I've quite literally been single since leaving him 11 years ago.
2026-07-08 15:57:28
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Pyro99 :
No sex is a deal breaker for me. After 10 years of nothing I’m finally divorced. Not sure why I waited so long.
2026-07-07 17:41:20
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Ken the farmer :
love is not a need...
2026-07-07 03:49:44
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Mand :
This 👌 I’m trying to gently have this exact conversation with my teenage Son
2026-07-06 21:54:44
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Poitkaish :
Have to disagree with you here. Sex is definitely a need for both men and women.
2026-07-08 13:53:18
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⃟ :
good message works for some dynamics in gay couples too
2026-07-06 21:40:37
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Laura Lee :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-07-06 20:28:19
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Afropolitan Barista :
❤️
2026-07-06 21:29:46
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MystiqueBraids :
men think sex and love are synonymous. good luck with that babe.
2026-07-06 21:19:12
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Jo Bleakley :
Yeah, absolutely NOT. If I’m having sex, I’m having an orgasm. No way, no how is that negotiable. This ‘advice’ just reinforces the orgasm gap! And the idea that women’s pleasure during sex is secondary, or not important at all. Too many men already consider women’s pleasure to be ‘too difficult’ or ‘not worth it’ and the solution to that is NOT to go ‘Oh, well… I feel pressured, you don’t need to make the effort any more.’ No, the solution is openness and education! If a woman is already not feeling connected and desired in a way that makes her WANT her partner in that way, on what planet does taking the ONLY enjoyable factor away make sense???
2026-07-07 08:23:23
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CallyN :
yes and then he says 'that's how i show and receive love, through sex'.
2026-07-06 21:33:19
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