@nursehadley: A stranger helped me realise what I couldn’t ♥️ more about that stranger (now my close friend) and the last few years of my marriage are in my new book, HOW TO LET GO. I hope it helps many people. #divorce #coercivecontrol
Kudos to her for saying something…BUT KUDOS TO YOU FOR NOT BEING DEFENSIVE AND HEARING HER‼️
2026-07-07 01:59:02
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kaiti :
Everyone needs to stop minding their business!
2026-07-07 14:08:57
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valeriec724 :
Gosh i just realized my life is not normal cause that’s my marriage
2026-07-07 01:36:54
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Sapphire :
It’s called Coercive control. It’s very insidious
2026-07-06 23:56:19
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Kasey Mayclin :
My ex-husband did something similar to me. I was a resident physician and invited to a nice dinner with my mentor that I idolized. He acted the same way your ex did. At the end of dinner he went to get the car and I apologized to her and she said, “Don’t worry about it. I’ll get you my divorce attorney’s number. You’re going to need it.” I was divorced within the year.
2026-07-07 00:07:27
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Krista pp🇨🇦🍁 :
If he doesn’t make your life better easier and more fun, he is not the one.
2026-07-07 07:06:46
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Sarah :
I worked at a restaurant with a girl for one month and my boyfriend came into eat with me one day….said girl was our waitress. I went to work the next day and she said point blank “Do you feel safe in your relationship?” And I looked at her and balled my eyes out. I never said a word or acted any kind of way…she just knew. And it was as that interaction that gave me the guts to leave him.
2026-07-06 23:48:55
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inthegardenwithkat :
God Bless her for having the guts to say that to someone she barely knew, she changed your life in that moment.
2026-07-07 00:41:45
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✨WifeMomTherapist✨ :
As a therapist, emotional abuse enrages me. 😞
2026-07-07 00:22:29
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Melodee Anthony :
Did y’all become friends
2026-07-06 22:05:06
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Stella&Nova :
He planned on sitting and watching tv on a first meeting with a couple he’s never met
2026-07-07 01:16:10
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🤍 :
I’m 30 and unmarried because I have seen friends go through this in their young marriages and I refuse to let that happen to me. I’m so glad you got out ❤️👑
2026-07-14 14:49:07
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Mandy007 :
God bless that woman ❤️
2026-07-14 15:50:24
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La La M :
Coersive control
2026-07-07 00:45:32
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Divine Goddess Charlynn♓️ :
TVs? He thought yall were going to apple bees or something
2026-07-07 01:12:53
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Jacki | zayn concerts fr 💛❤️ :
Sometimes it takes an outside observer
2026-07-06 23:52:07
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Michelle :
almost exactly my story, down to the year and new neighbors
2026-07-13 00:06:36
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536jen :
Hello from Mississippi!
2026-07-14 13:04:14
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Lady Nat :
Yes, I had a friend that told me, "This is toxic and unhealthy. You need to leave to save yourself and your kids." It was like a light came on. I left 2 days later.
2026-07-06 23:24:56
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Reedah76 :
Isn’t it strange we don’t see our own cage until someone else points out the bars sometimes? Just seeing it from the outside in is so eye opening!
2026-07-07 01:54:06
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Weed's Sweets & Eats :
I tried to tell a friend/co-worker this once. The next day, she told me her boyfriend said she couldn't hang with me anymore. 🥺
2026-07-07 01:06:02
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Alison Fleischer :
Same here. He was never outright “controlling”, but my choices were curtailed by punishments. I made my choices based on avoiding his retaliation.
2026-07-07 00:12:10
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user5685275396716 :
I think many of us are the frog being boiled one degree at a time…you don’t realize the situation is this bad because it got there so gradually
2026-07-07 02:07:19
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KarenMarin :
My bf does this. Like he'd NEVER tell me I can't, but he sure makes it clear he's not happy about it
2026-07-07 09:04:30
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