@vibe_samurai: You already know what to do. The problem was never information. Full breakdown of why your nervous system treats a boundary like a threat, and how to actually hold one, is on Substack this week. Link in bio. If this hit different and you want to work through your own pattern directly, Breakthrough Calls are open. Link in bio. #BoundariesWithFamily #NervousSystemRegulation #InnerWorkThatWorks #BreakthroughCall #VibeSamurai
In 1979, when I was 17, my family gave me an ultimatum to leave because they disapproved of my sexuality. They were extremely unpleasant. I left. 8 years later, after no contact with my entire extended family, they sent me a message saying I would now be permitted to visit the family home, on condition that my sexuality would never be mentioned. I never responded. When they knocked at my door, I didn't answer. We never spoke again. I've never regretted this decision, not once. I have my integrity, I have my peace, and I have a beautiful family I built with worthy people whose love doesn't come with conditions. Always put yourself first.
2026-07-07 06:32:51
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chiqule :
Wild that I almoѕt misѕed Тhе Ѕeсrеt Lifе Formulа… it feelѕ like knowledge nevеr mеant to be found.
2026-07-07 09:24:14
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VITRA YOGA 🧘🏻♀️ :
What about my boss?
2026-07-07 15:37:44
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nîne :
Silcence is the best answer!
2026-07-06 23:14:25
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Rob :
especially family
2026-07-07 12:33:02
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satindoll963 :
How about learning how to communicate effectively, have forgiveness for others, and showing humility in precarious situations. Revenge is never the right way to go. People make mistakes, people change and there’s always hope to make it better.
2026-07-07 00:47:18
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beaubrummell3 :
Prioritize your peace and mental health. Agreed. It is hard at first but it gets easier with practice.
2026-07-07 02:06:50
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jude :
I blocked my only brother for a year!
2026-07-07 09:13:54
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hbbh2250 :
it took me 59 yes to come to this point😢. now I'm peaceful
2026-07-07 07:16:02
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Jaclyn :
dont react. no body's got time for that.
2026-07-07 04:32:27
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GoddessEnjoyingTheGemsOfLife :
No exceptions. The boundaries stand for everyone. They’ll either rise to the occasion or give room for connections more aligned. 🥰
2026-07-06 23:21:06
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Big Bad Bill :
I have a sister that I will only speak to at a funeral while my father is alive, when he passes I will never speak to her again and I am happy about that fact.you can not let people steal your peace ever
2026-07-07 15:50:33
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Mimzey 🍁 :
I blocked my Mom…. No problem.
2026-07-07 09:40:19
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Dawn :
I did
2026-07-07 12:12:13
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LilDMinor :
2026-07-07 00:13:54
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minnieiaim :
Perfect ….
2026-07-07 10:26:13
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torj112z :
If you are the boss?
2026-07-07 11:26:05
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🍵 :
Yes you can 👍
2026-07-08 01:21:13
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DaniellArt :
I ghosted my group of friends
too tired to reply to any of their message
it's draining
2026-07-07 03:14:10
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Billie Gordon :
Sometimes we don't get new evidence though.
We get exactly the same.
2026-07-07 04:25:17
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shannonigans70 :
Love this
2026-07-07 02:15:25
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KB :
Correct 👍👍 it doesn't matter who.
2026-07-07 07:38:05
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Johannes :
I never met my father, my mother is the only one blocked.
2026-07-07 02:57:43
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JC :
2026-07-07 03:59:51
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