Your therapist will probably tell you to “communicate your feelings with him.” But if all your attention stays on the problem, the problem stays at the centre of your reality. Your self concept, the way you see yourself, is the real solution. 😉 So stop making him the focus and do this instead… Turn your attention back onto YOU. Start choosing yourself. Start valuing yourself. Start seeing yourself as the prize. People reflect the relationship you have with yourself, including your husband. When you make yourself your number one priority, you’ll often notice others begin treating you that way too. The change starts within, not with another conversation. #relationshipadviceforwomen #lawofassumption #selfconcept #husband #marriagegoals - @_themagneticmethod_