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Taylor Reinsch :
lol the first thing I did after my 5 year break up was get new sheets and go get coloring stuff!!
2026-07-13 15:20:39
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fitts :
Had to violently throw myself into a new routine after 3 months got better but I moved across the country because mine was very traumatizing but it does get better but daily things still come up but I’m better at handling it wishing you love and healing it’s so hard 🫶🏻
2026-07-07 00:09:54
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Whitney Bates Smith :
You will always have a feeling but it will be less important!
2026-07-07 01:22:46
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Winona Barker :
my ex left me at the altar. talk about being crushed. took me a little over a year to start dating again.. I'm married now and my husband is the biggest blessing. but having that trauma has been a hard thing to live with. weddings tend to be hard for me still
2026-07-08 02:30:26
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Riley :) :
I will go out of my way to NOT pass places that will trigger memories. The extra gas is worth your peace girl
2026-07-07 14:19:37
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samantha 🥀 :
it realllllly depends but to give you hope, bout 3-6 months before it isnt THAT bad!!!
2026-07-07 00:03:47
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Heather :
When I was 19, my high school boyfriend and I broke up. I thought it was the end of the world. Everyone thought we would eventually get married (including our parents) We had been together for years, graduations, college, etc - when we broke up I didn’t know if I’d ever be okay. A year later, at my 20th birthday party, when I had finally started feeling like myself again and enjoying being single, I met my now husband when I least expected it. I let myself feel all of the emotions for however long I needed and that was the best thing I could have ever done. It allowed me to fully heal and be at peace with God’s plan for my life. It’s now 17 years later, my husband and I are 37, and have the most beautiful life, beyond anything I could have ever dreamed of. Everything happens for a reason 🤍 It doesn’t have to make sense or feel good now, but I promise it eventually will!!
2026-07-07 17:05:55
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Lauren :
It definitely takes time, but those memories will become so much easier to handle.
2026-07-08 02:18:20
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jamie_gaskill :
You got this girly! you’re doing so amazing!
2026-07-07 00:11:50
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Kalan_Phelps :
I had a horrible breakup. I thought I was dying. Then....i met my husband. we've been married 16 years and that breakup was THE BIGGEST blessing of my life! my husband is literally my best friend and the greatest partner i could have ever dreamed of. Lots of love sent your way 🥰 your story is just beginning, and it's going to be amazing! tag my when you meet the one 🩷
2026-07-07 03:08:54
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Mackenzie :
I know this is a really hard time for you but I love how positive you are! Doing way better than I would be. God has a plan for you!
2026-07-07 00:05:40
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Sara :
Me and my boyfriend of three years broke up a month ago and I literally packed my car to the brim and moved 8 hours back home in the middle of the night afterwards to avoid those little memories. I don’t know when it gets better but you’re facing it every day which is really hard so have grace for yourself.
2026-07-07 00:13:17
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Emily M :
It’ll take some time. But with time it’ll heal. You’ll never fully forget though and that’s ok too
2026-07-07 00:05:13
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Lyndsay :
Unfortunately you stop being haunted by them when you make the decision to let them go. It’s not up to us, it’s up to time. Celebrate the little things, and feel the bad things. It’s about balancing out your negative with a little positive. You’re going to be okay beautiful ❤️
2026-07-07 17:11:34
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Erin Cromp :
It took me about 6 months to stop feeling suffocated by the thought of him. It’s been 10 months now and I met my now boyfriend a month ago. I realized that I was mourning what I thought he could have been not what he was. My now boyfriend shows me everything I’ve ever wanted and more and my ex fades more and more every day. New memories and new habits are good for the heart
2026-07-07 03:09:48
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Lbr0218 :
It’s been 10 months and I only stopped being haunted by my ex when I started dating someone new I really like a month ago
2026-07-07 01:23:07
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Steph Lopez :
I think the more to do to change your routine a bit and add novelty to your life. New things and habits will separate you from the past. The more new and good memories you make the less you think about the old ones.
2026-07-07 01:34:12
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Anna :
The haunting feeling will slowly fade into a memory, I promise
2026-07-07 00:55:49
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Meg :
I was in a long term relationship and ended it because that was the right decision for me. Was still a bit haunted even though I didn’t really miss him. Dated someone briefly and I don’t know when I’ll stop yearning.
2026-07-07 04:02:03
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Kirsten🌻 :
It gets easier I think you just start to realize the more time that goes by you create more memories in those same places so it’s not the first thing you think of, eventually the new normal is them not being there
2026-07-07 13:11:57
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AnnaGrace :
it takes time. I used to have to avoid the radio and listening to music bc everything reminded me of him. Now I’m happily married and don’t ever think about him. You’ll get there. Stay strong
2026-07-07 17:19:31
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user3722002540389 :
4 years later and I don’t think about him but sometimes I’ll see something that reminds me of him. Usually I’ll get sad or angry at the memory and move on. It gets easier. But it’s a slow process to get to the point of not thinking of him daily.
2026-07-07 14:33:05
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B🫧 :
It took me a solid couple of months to listen to our favorite music artists again. But the relief you feel when you can do those things again is amazing. 🤍
2026-07-07 23:06:46
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𝑀𝑒𝓁. 𝒜𝓃𝓃𝑒 🫶 :
It's just Jesus baby. I promise. He changed my life and He loves you so so much. You are a daughter of the Highest King. Lean into Him and He will give you peace, and rest. 🥰
2026-07-07 00:33:37
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