@okstorytime: My best friend planned her birthday at a club and got mad when I refused! Part 1 #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #reddit_tiktok

Marie R :

why cant you put the update in the same part..?

kyramlee :

Nta. I wouldn't go either, just because it's her birthday.. doesn't mean I'm going to cross my relationships boundaries and allowing that, to upset my relationship. No thankyou.

Sam :

“I hope u have fun but as its a club like that i dont feel comfortable attending let’s catch up another day to do something else for ur bday”

Rini Candy Bunny 🐇🍬 :

Okay nta but also they’ve been engaged 4 years??

Ffcf27654 :

It’s a weird venue for a birthday party but you could have just said sorry I can’t come I’m not free, rather than raising the her vs the fiancé issue.

Simurgh 🧙‍♀️ :

I‘m not interested in relationships, and I still wouldn‘t go - if you don‘t feel comfortable in a location, then you don‘t feel comfortable. The reason is secondary

Rajio 🇨🇦 :

lol guess i will never hear the rest of the story.

Brianf :

You still chose to remain friends with her

Vonbonlon :

For 1 everybody has the right to celebrate wherever they want. Just like she had the right to refuse to go. 2 everybody should respect everybody else's feelings and thoughts.

. :

Nta

Computer_say_no :

emma⌖ :

Tiramisuwu Plays! :

I don't use Spotify..

Romeo777 🤘💀🤘 :

even if she didn't have a bf, it's valid to refuse going into a place where you are not comfortable. So definitely nta

e_massk :

why is HE insecur?? It is their boundary.

Shé :

NGL, I wouldn't even go if I were single. If that's your thing, go for it. However, I know myself. I'd feel icky and uncomfortable. You simply can't force someone to like something like that... nta

MAKKAPACCA🇦🇺 :

I wouldt go anyway😭 i hate clubbing as is but sx clubs are WAY out of the comfort zone

Dandelion S. | indie author :

I kinda feel they won't get married if they haven't in those 4 years they've been engaged lmao

Gia_b_h :

it doesnt matter that she is a relationship if you dont feel comfortable going places like that then she should have accepted it.

Gh0ST :

immediately I like this woman w for standing on business for every 10 thousand loose ones there is one good one respect

Kira :

It doesnt even matter if the fiance doesnt want her to go to a club like this, if she says doesn't want to go to a strip club it is very very weird to try and force her to go to one no matter what reasons she has. trying to force someone to go to a strip club when they've clearly said they're uncomfortable is always weird.

F :

We need subway or rug cleaners or slime vids

Angela 🇨🇴🇬🇧 :

What's with the voices?

blaze :

nta, my gf is my top priority and we aren't even engaged (YET defo planing to propose after we are done with our degrees and have a job) we put eachother first not doing that is crazy imo putting your partner first is the only right thing in a realtionship and if your friends go to a spicy club and it's not something your partner is comfortable with the friends to either change place or deal with you not beaing there

Alison :

Nta I wouldn’t go either as I don’t feel comfortable going to a strip club while in a relationship