@anxiouslyalej: Stress that man out and he will love you more for it. There is a healthy amount of stress that pushes people to embody excellence, and it is the same reason he takes immediate action on feedback at work. Men value what they could lose and take for granted what they think is never going anywhere. So when you go all JLO on him with my love don't cost a thing, he invests that energy elsewhere because he thinks you are not going anywhere, and then the dates stop getting planned. This isn't about "playing" hard to get. It's about genuinely BEING hard to get and easy to LOSE. Men stress over you when you no longer show up as the good girl who is endlessly forgiving. They stress over you when you have embodied your standards and boundaries and they KNOW you will walk away the moment they are no longer being met. Keywords: standards in dating, male psychology, boundaries in relationships, dating advice for women, relationship psychology, feminine energy, how men fall in love, dating in your 30s #womensdatingadvice #datingforwomen #relationships #datingadvice #datinginyour30s

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de_la_flav
🪽Angel🪽🇧🇷 :
Examples of stressing a man out?
2026-07-07 15:19:29
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momphil
Momphil :
This only works if he really really likes and wants to be with you.
2026-07-07 06:01:12
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ahmed.kostbaar.ju
Ahmed💌 kostbaar juweeltje :
i dont think all men are the same i dont get firef i quite
2026-08-29 22:44:23
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veroshiku158
veraden shiku :
this only works when you truly lose interest. if you love him too much. you won't
2026-07-07 08:36:47
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hotcheetosunrise
hotcheetosunrise :
Unfortunately this is true. I stress my ex out every time he reaches out and I swear he loves me more every day. I was sooo nice and forgiving our entire relationship and he walked all over me.
2026-07-07 05:08:32
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am6335
Amalia. :
I need examples
2026-07-07 17:18:08
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thyroidautoimmunerevival
🦋Thyroid & Autoimmune Revival :
My best friend and her husband have the best relationship and treat each other soon beautifully. This isn't the best advice for everyone.
2026-07-07 09:51:03
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amyyyliz_
Amy 🦋 :
I love him but I do stress him out
2026-07-07 20:46:44
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miss_ora
🦋 MISS ORA 🦋 :
Disclaimer: If he likes you enough
2026-07-08 00:36:38
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lthejohnson
Lthejohnson :
But I’m just so low maintenance i don’t want to stress anyone out 😩
2026-07-08 02:47:58
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rckst4rprncss
𝘪𝘭 :
He tried blowing off our date after we both got ready. I told him to take me home so I can eat, hasn’t blown off a date since
2026-07-07 09:07:15
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randomdoses_
الخيل والبيداء :
Just be yourself. Don’t become obsessed with him. If he doesn’t stay, then he simply wasn’t meant for you.
2026-07-07 16:44:17
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coolusername771
🧿 :
Okay I did this and he left
2026-07-07 21:43:16
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jkullen
Jenn🇨🇦 :
28 years married… and this intelligent beautiful woman speaks facts 💯! Do you always! Your posts hit each time darling!
2026-07-07 21:54:12
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thetrainedeye
Anonymous :
I listened to you and you were wrong. He hates me now
2026-07-07 06:36:16
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corby103
Alicia :
How do we do this though 😬 like practical examples please 😭
2026-07-08 20:37:54
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vadszuz
Szív :
totally agree. my husband knows i have family that will support me through any decision. that i have the ability to turn off my emotions, pack up, go and ill figure it out. even if it means SW. I dont care i wont live a life where im treated bad or i dont like. 17 years we've been married. He is absolutely the best.
2026-07-08 17:24:53
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darkbounty001
Darkbounty 🤎🍫 :
I told him I’m going on a solo dinner date and he was so stressed 😭He had to pay me to stay home 🌚😂😭I had overdressed
2026-07-08 13:27:51
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nkmeh
Kiki 🇻🇳 :
My man loves peace however, I gotta stress him out at least once a week . 😭😂
2026-07-07 21:11:55
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alu_chikin
Aluto :
what about in marriage?
2026-07-07 08:48:24
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jna5863
jna :
I think she is right. Works all the time
2026-07-07 11:14:16
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abundancethemanifestess
Abundance Au’raah | 🧠🧿🤍✨ :
He said ugh you stress me out cause I had my AirPods in ALL day I said good😂😂😂😂🥰
2026-07-08 00:53:16
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.6.24.16i
VI • XXIV • MMXVI • 𑣲𝒾 :
I stresssss tf outta mine lol 10yrs and counting 😅
2026-07-07 17:35:47
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hbe319
Hbe :
That’s too much work. Love me or don’t love me.
2026-07-08 00:42:42
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