@kaelynalexandria_: I need black women to be more strategic in our dating lives! We need to be encouraging our girls to date sooner rather than later, teaching them HOW to date, what to look for, and ultimately encouraging them through the process. The book I referenced in the video is : Black Women, Black Love: America’s War on African American Marriage! Check it out and look at the facts and figures , with all the love in the world BLACK MEN AND BLACK WOMEN NEED EACH OTHER!! #blackcouples #datingwhileblack #blacklove #blackwealth #datingadvice

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brooklinchanay
brooklinchanay :
I get this but black girls and women are always told to focus on marriage but black boys and men are not
2026-08-03 16:53:17
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rozabroad
ItsmeRozzie :
Yep! That’s what them other folks do. They are taught to find their mate in college.
2026-07-24 20:32:07
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tessa.clayton1
tessaclayton5 :
Wish somebody told me this I’m already almost 2 years out, and have never dated anyone 😭😭I’m 24
2026-09-30 21:00:23
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caribbean.jewel8
caribbean jewel :
👏👏👏👏👏Great advice
2026-07-15 05:55:59
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shantelsellsthecarolinas
Shantel Hernandez Realtor :
Agreed!!!
2026-07-19 22:18:38
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ayojamesbruce2
Jamebruceayo 720 :
Hi am here
2026-07-12 23:40:54
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therealkeishanda
Keishanda :
Too late I’ll be forty soon, no kids, never married. But I am also not a single mother or a divorcee soo I guess you win some and lose some.
2026-07-07 03:35:10
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mytraveltokkk
B.A.P 👸🏿 :
Was the book Is Marriage for White People? Even in college, the pool of black men is VERY slim. Almost none are interested in "settling down" in college. Black men in general settle down much later than other races....not to mention if you're at a PWI, there's a good chunk of them that aren't into us. I graduated 8yrs ago and I can only think of ONE couple that was dating in college and are married today.
2026-08-17 00:29:48
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nuptials.noir
Nuptial Noir :
Those are some of the most promiscuous men. Because there is a shortage of Black, educated men - law of supply and demand. It works if you want to endure the pain of him stepping out. Consider that your starter marriage.
2026-08-02 04:40:20
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misunderstoodkj
misunderstoodkj :
I agree with you. I'm happily married to an educated black man. I got married at 40 (and he just turned 41). Let's also tell educated black women to be intentional in dating the men in the same socioeconomic status as them who was raised in a healthy family environment or at least still made better choices in spite of how they were raised if the family environment wasn't as healthy. Perfect example of this type of man is "Durelle Bailey" on TikTok/IG.
2026-07-12 02:56:05
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