@loudthoughtsforyou: When someone truly loves you, their biggest fear is hurting you. But when someone only loves the way you make them feel, their biggest fear is losing you. And there’s a huge difference. Real love thinks about your heart. Your peace. Your feelings. It asks, “How will my actions affect the person I love?” But attachment thinks about access. Comfort. Attention. Validation. It asks, “What will happen to me if this person leaves?” That’s why some people are terrified of losing you, yet continue doing the very things that hurt you. They don’t want to change their behaviour. They just don’t want to lose what you provide. Real love doesn’t only fight to keep you. It fights to become a safer person for you to stay with. Because keeping someone while repeatedly hurting them isn’t love. It’s possession. Pay attention to what someone is protecting. Your heart? Or their access to you? Sometimes their biggest fear tells you everything you need to know. #realtalk #Relationship #RelationshipAdvice #Love #Attachment

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