@tedkaczynskisgreatfriend: Team Voice-note Guy — direct communication is sexy. Setting expectations versus relying on coercion is beautiful. Learn how to communicate directly with people; it will save you a lot of heartbreak and time.
People say they want direct communication but then get scared once they actually experience it 😭
2026-07-07 17:39:24
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MamaSnoot :
He didn’t waste her time and spoke with clarity. I don’t see anything wrong with that.
2026-07-07 16:53:00
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B :
I would appreciate a very direct message like that. Let me know upfront so I can decide whether or not I wanna continue.
2026-07-08 09:23:48
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WakoGeek :
I’d argue her posting it without HIS consent is more an issue than him communicating directly with her
2026-07-07 22:10:27
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mooz :
It's so weird posting private messages like that
2026-07-07 21:30:04
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Lucifers_Sinner :
"He made it an ultimatum!" Ultimatums are not inherently bad or toxic y'all 😭
2026-07-07 20:24:54
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Lady~Glitter~Sparkles :
Voice note guy was expressing exactly what he wanted and to make sure she was on the same page... I think he was truly trying to work on an informed consent model.
2026-07-07 17:42:44
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Wert259 :
A lot of people are also forgetting that sex is also part of the dating experience. Sexual compatibility is also a big part of dating someone
2026-07-07 17:13:20
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Evan Anderson :
Damn someone was open and honest about their intentions and theyre somehow the bad person?
2026-07-07 16:06:56
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user5369424774747 :
it's insanely creepy that people are willing to take what was intended to be a private message and then broadcast it for the whole world to hear
2026-07-07 21:57:30
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Love James :
dont know why everyone is so averse to people being blunt and clear???
2026-07-07 16:25:59
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grizzly_rose :
Doing it by voice memo makes it personal while removing the pressure of in person, seems like a great idea
2026-07-07 16:05:17
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Kara Colli :
To me, it just sounds like an ultimatum and manipulation. That should be clear from "hello."
2026-07-07 21:07:51
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Temi Ade672 :
for me I didn't like the voice note because some of the wording grossed me out but I did like the idea of consent
2026-07-07 19:21:50
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Miko :
I agree with you microbang Anne Hathaway
2026-07-08 09:18:33
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DH :
✋️🙄 absolutely, this is correct
2026-07-08 09:18:59
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who :
Agreeeeed
2026-07-08 09:17:52
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The_Pirate_Pen📚 :
Your take is also wrong
2026-07-08 06:33:43
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maddie :
People get weird when they’re disappointed in dating. They immediately run to “this person is bad” and not “this person isn’t for me”
2026-07-07 18:47:40
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Hannah🍄 :
most people have those desires, let's not condemn someone for appropriately expressing those desires, regardless of gender
2026-07-07 18:30:58
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sananabogstel :
My question is, why did she post this instead of just responding to him?
2026-07-07 19:23:19
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Lukas_Too_Good :
See a lot of people talking about timing “oh it was their 1st/2nd/3rd date..” why does this matter? He is telling you his intentions, very blatantly and not trying to waste his or your time. This should be what yall want in a person?
2026-07-07 19:26:12
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