@lifecoachashleyberges: The Real Reason Narcissists and Covert Narcissists Refuse to make decisions. #narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic #covertnarcissist #relationships
I had to make all the decisions and then being called “controlling”.
2026-07-07 15:31:47
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Bri :
my husband would always put the planning and decisions on me and then say he knew the plan wasn't going to work out when it didn't work out.
2026-07-07 19:11:29
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csg9558 :
its always my fault. but hes NEVER stepped up to the plate on ANYTHING. including the kids. so all their choices fall on the mothers and its our fault. Im wife #3 i was SO young and dumb.
2026-07-21 04:28:41
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Liisa Lee :
Always. For everything.
2026-07-31 11:58:14
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Bonnibee :
This makes so much sense.
2026-08-18 14:02:48
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I Got Time Today :
Why is there anything to blame in the "wrong decision", though? I'm the type to turn a "bad luck" day into something fun... I just don't like making plans.... I'mma pay for it... I just don't want to plan it😂
2026-07-21 04:02:09
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God's Girl :
This!!!!
2026-08-24 00:13:06
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Makaveli_Speaks :
They refuse to decide so that whatever happens, they can say it was your choice and escape accountability.
2026-08-03 18:01:30
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J Kraz961 :
I know one who always asked for input on a topic. When I offered my input as requested it would immediately be put down. Shocker, I quit offering responses
2026-07-08 20:01:33
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Birdie88 :
Thiiis!!!
2026-07-07 19:11:43
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Return With Nyjele :
Yes
2026-07-27 23:05:11
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Krona :
I don’t like being the decision maker for these exact points. I don’t want to get blamed or ridiculed
2026-07-08 10:04:24
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cepalmer11 :
Hold people accountable for THEIR ACTIONS, make them make their decisions don’t let TikTok people tell you any different, be you cause you have to deal with yourself
2026-07-07 20:11:52
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Dawnann🖤🥀 :
It’s my mom
2026-07-08 05:50:07
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user3866967083668 :
Word
2026-07-08 05:09:38
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The Cozy Butterfly :
my ex
2026-07-07 15:10:08
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georgefurlong38 :
she would laugh at me if she found a small mistake when I buzz cut my own head, but not pick up the razor to fix it😳😳😳
2026-09-04 19:33:45
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breaugusta :
Yep. My mom asked me to make big life decisions since I was a young child 🤯. I finally figured out what she was doing, and started to refuse to help her… unfortunately I was 40 once I finally realized. 🤦🏻♀️We have been no contact for 3 peaceful years 🤷🏻♀️.
2026-07-21 01:09:35
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polarbearD :
My experience was that she would make decisions and then blame me for my reaction 😎
2026-08-24 03:12:30
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Jay oh :
This!! Also experienced not fully participating in parenting. Then got to “blame” me for why he wasn’t crawling yet or still working on potty training.
2026-07-07 14:55:00
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mlo844 :
It’s like playing Chutes and Ladders with your toddler! If you look away they’ll swear they won!😂
2026-07-07 22:04:52
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gojenie0 :
I made ALL of the Big purchases in the marriage. Houses 🏠.. cars 🚘.. all of it !
2026-07-07 17:43:18
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gojenie0 :
Exactly
2026-07-07 17:42:30
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