@ddp8792: #relatable #relationships #dating #girl #men

Aye Michelle 🇨🇦 :

It’s called cognitive dissonance

isabella :

It’s fucking exhausting is what it’s called

still.standing.by.grace :

Here’s how I’d describe each part: * “I miss them.” That’s grief. Your heart still feels the absence of someone who mattered. * “I don’t want them back.” That’s wisdom or self-protection. You’ve learned that missing someone isn’t the same as believing the relationship is right. * “I could see myself ending up with them.” That’s the lingering attachment to the future you once imagined. It’s the life you pictured together that’s hard to let go of. * “If they asked, I’d say no.” That’s a boundary. It means your values are stronger than your longing. * “I can’t see my life with anyone else.” That’s often emotional exclusivity after a profound attachment. Your heart hasn’t made room for another story yet—not necessarily because no one else exists, but because this chapter hasn’t fully settled

NICOLE JAROSZ :

It’s called falling in love with the potential of who someone could be, knowing you can’t have the past version of them back that you felt safe with, and disconnecting from the version of them that changed. All while knowing you deserve better, but still grieving, so your subconscious isn’t ready to ground into a new commitment with another person yet. Even though the unknown is actually a better option for you because giving yourself a clean slate frees your heart and sliding back into what’s familiar will only keep you trapped longer inside the heartache.

Nancy :

Your in love with the person you want them to be

Azania :

I miss him everyday and yet I don't want him back😭

Frian Breese :

so im not alone. the struggle is real

bronto burt - dangerous dinner :

I feel this almost exactly. Right now I don’t want them back because I want to focus on myself and my own life, but if at a later time they were to try and reconnect and have worked on their own stuff and life or is 100% willing to work on it with me then i’d be ok with giving it another try. Otherwise i’d still say no and continue being happy by myself

Betch :

In psychology it’s called cognitive dissonance.

hurrrrdurrrr :

It’s called hang in there and it’ll al be “no” as you gain more clarity

Grimlax :

I think its called love

SlimBabiee💋 :

I’m having withdrawals but I know he’s not my person that I thought he would be

Gordiggity🇵🇷 :

A good memory wtf 😂

nath_nic :

It's called 'saudade'

Tebogo ///M :

surely this app can read my mind 😂😂😂😂😂

LexMahrie :

Deadasss

silent reader :

this is too fucking specific

Tiffany Merle :

I have been separated for 8 months also! Crazy rollercoaster of emotions

ceeceenicole :

Cooked. It’s called being cooked. 😩😩

GenXADD :

It’s called loving them but knowing you’re not compatible 💔

Andrew :

Sydney Starr :

Why are we all going through the same thing as the same time 😩 this is weird

Mulenga C. Bwalya :

Literally me right. I'd definitely say no but boy do I miss them