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Yes. He told me he liked her because she said nice things to him and he could be himself around her.
2026-08-19 13:18:32
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YG :
Yes, the leave for easier. Not better.
2026-07-07 21:45:02
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Nikki N :
Yeah they should just date Siri
2026-07-08 04:32:43
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Hailstorm02 :
Yep and our marriage started falling apart once I started asking for growth and change. Now he is with a new GF.
2026-07-07 20:23:37
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Simply SiSi :
So it sounds like you should avoid a DA at all costs and don't ever start a relationship with them. . . 🤔
2026-08-06 17:22:48
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Pher00004 :
He said, we have fun and she makes me happy
2026-07-07 23:52:22
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zellie :
36yrs marriage. I think been cheating for longer than I actually realise
2026-07-08 01:54:33
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raenellynn1211 :
Community. .. just found out mine husband is on dating sites.
2026-07-07 19:58:28
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Marisa-Ris-Risa :
His response was just this… “idk, she seems cool” 🙄. So glad he’s gone
2026-07-28 18:08:58
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unkown1234 :
Man this might be the most accurate shit I herd in a long time
2026-07-12 11:58:36
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suzannediflavio :
Cool and fun lol. They probably also call that peace because nothing was required from him emotionally. He didn’t have to stay in conflict, because it’s cool and fun 😅
2026-07-09 21:45:19
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Dork dork :
And those affairs can eventually become demanding and then the DA discards the affair partner.
2026-07-24 20:05:48
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Kimberly Black :
She will be though in the future.
2026-07-07 18:13:06
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outthewindowproducti :
On my case its her. Im so broken.
2026-07-07 20:56:12
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Miss one percent :
Exactly- surface!
2026-07-07 21:56:10
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MamaB :
yep!!! that’s my husband and he was confused
2026-07-07 21:52:57
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She Healed Anyway :
So true ❤️❤️❤️
2026-07-08 04:51:34
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Oneida Lamas :
thank you
2026-07-08 14:24:46
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Carlyn Vasquez :
What if it’s the toxic long term ex they cheat with? Familiarity? He told her private issues we had, things about me, basically gave her a blueprint to act a certain carefree nonchalant role
2026-08-01 17:59:26
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lena_terupe01 :
Leave them in their world and walk away!
2026-07-08 22:28:58
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Kathy 💓 💓 💓 :
that's why tyere great in the beginning
2026-07-08 07:41:58
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Grumble of 5 :
Spot on!
2026-07-08 00:04:14
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deborahandrella :
Community
2026-07-13 13:16:58
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petrichorkitty :
community
2026-07-07 16:53:45
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