As a 8th houser too, absolutely have had this happen in the beginning of relationships or dating where Iโm showered with things I donโt want instead of the closeness or intimacy I seek. Iโll be grateful for a lil free gift here & there but I donโt think Iโll ever let someone have financial control over my life, it scares me. ๐
2026-07-07 16:20:38
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daBinchy :
I have Saturn and Pluto conjunct 8th house in Libra, what does it mean ๐ณ
2026-07-14 01:12:27
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livperr :
Planets in the 8H will never be controlled by the individualโs own influence. Other ppl will always dominate those planets, even Sun. Thatโs why some 8H Sun ppl like to be alone or hidden: they literally need a break :/
2026-07-07 18:08:39
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cold_water :
Itโs like doing sales you get money via people but have to to deal with their BS!
2026-07-07 19:20:09
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sick 'n souled :
Everytime I see people speaking up HONESTLY about the 8h I almost cry. I started a page about a lot of the 8th misconceptions. Like this is not a fun house at all to have in your chart.
2026-07-08 05:34:38
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Soul Matters :
Preeeachh. Nothing is truly free when it comes to the 8th house, itโs a true entanglement at that point. moon and Saturn in the 8th in placidus, definitely been the victim of financial abuse in several different relationships, familial, financial and professional.
2026-07-07 19:15:09
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๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ธ๐ฟ๐ฎ :
The cost is necessary for each and every 8th houser to go through in order to self actualize
2026-07-07 22:54:48
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Taylor Angelique :
Also, what is it with people trying to control us in some way, shape or form especially if you have Sun in the 8th house?
2026-07-08 09:52:00
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Meaghan :
This! I have an 8th house stellium to and I always remind ppl that yes you can be taken care of but it has to be THE RIGHT PERSON! Bc financial abuse is real. And I also consider โother peopleโs resourcesโ of the 8th house to also be the Universeโs resources and I receive through the universe
2026-07-07 19:45:58
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Michael Harris | astrology โจ :
Venus in the 8H and i couldnโt agree more! Iโve been in relationships where they pay for all my things but it turned into an owned debt and im tied to them
2026-07-08 01:08:54
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jona :
literally can we just stop romanticizing the 8th house overall ๐ญ its so destructive and isnt at all love and light.
2026-07-08 01:19:54
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The Ninth Sphere :
Yes, people see my Jupiter in my 8th and are always like โyouโre gonna be taken care of!โ Iโm like, girl, itโs retrograde and Aquarius trine my 12th house Venus. All it gives me is everyoneโs bull๐ฉ
2026-07-07 16:29:31
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๐ฏsarah๐ฏ :
I am so glad you are speaking on this. I have Gemini moon, mars, Venus, and vertex. Financial control, power struggles, projection, narc abuse are a lot of themes in my life. I have been able to persevere but people donโt see the challenges that led to any personal accomplishments.
2026-07-07 16:13:18
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My Antihero :
Taurus in 8th house and most my life Iโve found myself in toxic living situations out of financial necessity. Itโs NOT a blessing.
2026-07-08 04:14:41
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๐๐ฉ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ ๐ก๏ธ :
Definitely a lot of financial control with my 8th house stellium
2026-07-07 17:11:37
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Shavana Reneeโจ :
I am currently experiencing this, itโs not a positive thing at all. Like yes my needs are met but I have a lot of responsibilities and burdens with the circumstances. Iโm a live in caregiver for my narcissistic grandma, mind you we also share many placements ๐.
2026-07-07 16:06:06
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Leeann Fabulous :
Iโm glad you posted this. I have Venus, mars, and Mercury in the 8th. Ever since i found out that the 8th house is called a house of โshared resourcesโ, Iโve felt extremely uncomfortable. Iโve made sure that I wonโt have to rely on another person financially in my adult life, and it feels very scary to have to rely on someone else. It worries me that I may be doing something wrong (especially during tough financial times like now) but I just wonโt do it. I do like being able to take care of others though, so maybe thatโs what it means for me?
2026-07-07 18:23:26
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its not destiny :
exactly because that betrayal aspect is still very real ๐ญ
Like seriously some of the videos Iโve seen are straight up dangerous and discernment is needed in this space ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
2026-07-07 16:02:48
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Cat :
Spot on girl! I have the sun and moon in my 8th house and my parents have controlled my life through money.
2026-07-08 00:10:47
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Stop it.Getsumhelp. :
My husband and I both have 8th house stelliums. He has Jupiter, Saturn, Pluto & I have Mercury, mars, Venus. He supports me financially. Does it come at a price? Yes but itโs a price I can live with and what DOESNT come at a price? I feel like being human is just a giant existential trust fall anyway
2026-07-07 21:59:25
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RHO :
my moon in the 8th house.
i cannot share anything.
2026-07-08 13:06:42
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sanasayz :
You just FINALLY made me realize what the 8H actually is. Holy crap. Thanks.
2026-07-07 22:51:18
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