Got blamed for my reaction to her actions, as if I was the problem
2026-07-08 00:34:04
3053
𝕄𝕒𝕕𝕚𝕤𝕤𝕠𝕟 🂡 :
“Sorry I didn’t live up to your expectations” when I never expected anything I just wanted to spend time, just to talk.
2026-07-08 03:05:27
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blair.mauve :
Why is it that avoidants just disappear? How is your mind allowing you to peacefully leave someone in the dark?
2026-07-08 05:31:52
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✿ megs ✿ :
The avoidant after the narcissist was the worse pain I've ever endured. I truly broke to the core... I wouldn't wish it on anyone. 3 years later he's getting married and I'm only healed enough to go on a date. No one will ever understand how truly shattering it is.
2026-07-09 02:39:48
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Julia🐡 :
I wаs јuѕt like that, but worse. Yоu аre deserving of lоve аnd рeace, no mattеr what yоu’ve been through, nеver forget thаt. Reading Нealіng Iѕn’t Prettу bу Mіra Наrtson gavе me the spаrk back і оnсе lоst. І felt sеen, heаrd аnd underѕtоod fоr the fіrѕt time in my lіfe.
2026-07-09 14:25:38
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𝓐𝓲𝓶𝓮𝓮✨ :
but now i’ve turned into an avoidant :(
2026-07-08 03:38:44
452
Elizabeth :
I never got an apology from him, but I did apologize to myself for self abandoning and tolerating his mistreatment. And then, I took it a step further and committed to doing the work to heal the part of me that thought this kind of behavior in a relationship was ok. And finally, I forgave myself. I know they like to say, “they always come back”, but mine never did. And I’m so grateful he didn’t. Because as it turns out, the only validation I really needed was my own. Hugs to all of you who are going through this. I remember how it felt, and it was miserable. That said, I believe in all of you and I know that all of you deserve better 💕
2026-07-08 16:42:10
106
sam_lo92 :
Like I didn’t mean shit .. the silence is evil 💔
2026-07-08 17:10:58
85
Mikaela82🇨🇦 :
I’ll never get an apology - bc then he’ll have to admit he did something wrong
2026-07-10 02:28:02
10
Kris :
I got the apology. I never got the changed behavior.
2026-07-09 14:10:47
5
.probably lost :
To avoidants the discard is the closure.
2026-07-08 05:09:26
42
oliveoilcalico :
i’ve learned that silence is better in the long-run.
2026-07-08 13:11:18
20
Oatmilkkk o(*≧▽≦)ツ :
Me rn
2026-07-07 23:18:46
57
meadowmarie23 :
I got blocked and removed from their life after i helped build it. i need to move on but the resentment lingers
2026-07-08 09:24:48
26
Chumarion :
Repost of the silent nature.
2026-07-08 23:17:35
10
Ingrid :
I got a “im sorry you feel that way” text
2026-07-09 05:09:35
6
SIR Badger :
Id be happy to have the conversation, end results wont change but I didnt even get the conversation. The person who knew everything about me, who I trusted, believed in, cherished, gone without even a conversation. Ill never trust anyone half as much as that
2026-07-08 04:11:28
41
Hannah Surber :
Got hung up on mid conversation
2026-07-08 02:42:44
18
Belluxe :
Blamed for my reaction to their actions. Then made the villain because I reacted at all. No accountability or ability or desire to repair is the biggest red flag. Building my closure now.
2026-07-08 02:44:02
86
pradastraightjacket :
Silence is way worse
2026-07-08 18:57:06
6
Corie :
I got I’m sorry your hurting I really am, I’m hurting to
2026-07-07 22:43:45
149
Matt 🦉⚡️ :
Literally silence. Only for me to be the one who apologize when I’m the one who needed the apology, with no response. “Had to build my own closure” 💯
2026-07-08 00:04:18
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