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hope_peddler :
This is such a tough part of the journey. Taking an honest assessment of how much we change in relationships is not for the faint of heart
2026-07-07 23:47:50
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RescueKnowledge Study Guides :
I was SO embarrassed that I was putting up with some of the things I dealt with while married to my ex husband and I HATED myself for allowing myself to shrink. I'm back to my ACTUAL self and feeling SO MUCH HAPPIER
2026-07-08 00:08:09
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Colleen :
I just want to thank you because this series has been helping me so much.
2026-07-07 23:38:02
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Styling with Sarah :
I would make the decision and then feel like a HUGE failure if he didn’t like the decision - where to eat, what hotel to stay at, etc. I look back on myself and how hard I worked to manage his experience was embarrassing but mostly made me grieve, grieve all of that self-abandonment and fear of him not having a good experience and how that made me feel like such a failure
2026-07-08 04:06:04
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Jess :
You shouldn’t be embarrassed, I think this happens to a lot of us. Now I’m understanding why I was so upset with him but mostly with myself.
2026-07-08 02:04:45
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Denise M :
Thank you for being so vulnerable! This series has been super valuable 💐
2026-07-07 23:48:30
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woowoogirly29 :
I've realized that this is what I do in relationship. And, yes, I've learned things in relationship. But what I've lost is bigger and more important to me than learning patience or how to extend compassion without losing myself. I have been taught to give myself away in any interaction. I cannot afford to do that in real life relationships outside of work anymore.
2026-07-08 04:52:27
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Cheyenne | Wood Artist :
I think this is a stage of this decentering, deconstruction in stuck in right now. Instead of it propelling me forward, I’m just so disappointed in myself and my decisions in this life. I’m 51 now and I feel like I’ve lost so much time shrinking myself to the point I don’t recognize myself.
2026-07-08 11:27:51
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Maple Kitty :
FYP. New here, but this resonates with me so deeply... Did you stay with him or have to leave him to recenter yourself?
2026-07-08 00:52:44
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Earth Angel :
This. I’m STILL working through this part of it all. I betrayed me. I abandoned me. Long before he ever did. I fell sooo far short of the standards that I set for myself.. literally became the epitome
2026-07-11 18:20:11
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ErikNY28 :
You are one of the strongest individuals I've ever met. 💪 understandable road bump, way to work through it.
2026-07-14 20:03:35
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Kasey | Human, Therapist :
Okay but I want to know, how did your relationship change when you stopped centering him?
2026-07-08 03:01:03
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churple :
that parking is such a good example. even when they mean well and trying to be helpful, they're overtaking. at first I would try to accommodate. now I just look at him with that knowing smile and park wherever the hell I want. he gets it.
2026-07-07 23:46:52
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Lexi Marler :
Do you feel your husband may have been critical of you and your actions before, which led you to feel this way? Something I’m trying to process now. Your parking example is what prompted me to ask because I feel the exact same way, but I think it’s because he’s very critical of me and my choices but always says it’s “just a joke”
2026-07-09 21:21:05
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Indigo that llama :
I don't think I have even acknowledged this yet but it's absolutely true! I'm a couple years into a lot of work but hadn't examined this. Love this series
2026-07-07 23:33:51
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user1017051241322 :
This resonates so much. I’m working on turning things around. Thank you for sharing this valuable information.
2026-07-12 12:34:40
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amjenz :
every decision I made was for his benefit alone…I only considered what he wanted and what would make him happy…I’m so glad to be out from under his thumb. Thank you for this series!!
2026-07-08 02:16:14
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deird3333 :
This one particularly spoke to me!
2026-07-08 13:06:10
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DebBsue52 :
Oh god! I did everything his way and am STILL having trouble knowing what I really want. 😳
2026-07-09 09:16:39
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Ellascerealbackoff :
Hi I love your channel and the stories you tell and your advice has opened my eyes so much and makes me feel very seen. I just wanted to let you know if you don’t that I saw @itdhiffoh is reposting your videos
2026-07-13 10:27:32
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Brookie D💋 :
Where you always thinking about what he would want or chose, because of his reactions to you when you did not automatically know what he would have wanted/chose? Or was it just because you wanted to show him your love, or make him happy knowing that would make him happy? Just curious. Im
2026-07-08 00:59:52
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savanah2233 :
Those subconscious tapes gradually multiply over time. No shame in it. It’s a gift when they get loud enough to hear. Growing is discovering what we believe is not true.
2026-07-09 17:22:31
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D3pSt8 :
Same, girl same.
2026-07-10 03:44:11
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glutenfreedumpling :
I relate to you so much. Thank you for sharing. 💜
2026-07-14 03:31:48
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wickedheidiwest91 :
👏👏👏
2026-07-08 01:27:33
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