Iāve always been pro choice but honestly becoming a mum made me even more pro choice. I absolutely love being a mum but it is without a doubt incredibly hard and you shouldnāt be doing it unless your heart is fully in it and youāre ready to make a lot of changes and sacrifices.
2026-07-07 18:24:06
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Emi :
It hit me since becoming a mum that itās harder to adopt a dog .. anyone can just have a tiny human! Is that not low key wild š¤£
2026-07-07 18:00:06
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Abbyš» :
I dont want to be a mum, I want to be a cool aunt š
2026-07-07 18:16:09
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Taylor āļø :
I completely disagree. I always said I didn't want kids and I really meant it. The thought of not being my own person and just being a mum was awful to me and I was not willing to make any sacrifices, I wanted to keep travelling and doing whatever I wanted with my partner. I fell pregnant at 35 when I thought I was going through early menopause and didn't find out until I was 12 weeks and now that he is here, I can't imagine a life without him. I am so in love with him and being his mum that I'm so mad at myself for not having a baby sooner. I almost can't believe how much time, money and pain I spent on breastfeeding because I didn't care about anything other than doing the absolute best for him. It was such a wild change in mindset the second I laid eyes on him.
2026-07-08 07:38:10
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Bekah Cran | Bridal MUA :
I will never in my life want kids x
2026-07-08 16:45:58
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leah.g1509 :
Iām glad youāre being honest. Most people go oh just have a child itās the best . Iām on the fence . Iām not maternal at all and now Iām married everyone assumes we are having kids . We may or may not who knows
2026-07-07 17:43:59
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Daisy :
I always wanted kids my whole life and when I had my daughter I genuinely had days early on when I thought what the hell have I done, Iāve ruined my life! Things are so much better now but honestly no clue how people who donāt even want kids that much do it
2026-07-07 18:38:29
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Fionnuala ryanš :
i dont want kids ever but i do agree
2026-07-07 17:46:08
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Tash :
I certainly wasnāt geared up for it. Found out when I was 30 weeks and it has been the hardest experience I have ever, or will ever go through and I completely agree with everything you said. She is the light of my life now at 15 months, but I truly lost myself in motherhood and Iām still not backš„²
2026-07-07 17:47:52
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becca x :
iām 23. i did not want children until 30. fell pregnant had THE HARDEST pregnancy. was homeless half way through it too. after giving birth i fell in love and have had THE BEST experience so far. sheās 6 months on monday š„°
2026-07-07 17:55:36
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unschoolingthehammonds :
I never ever wanted children. I have three children who are my absolute world. I home school them, co sleep, are together 24/7... I still dislike kids but mine are the best š
2026-07-07 19:38:05
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Lilja KristĆn š :
Wish more people thought like this š«¶
2026-07-07 17:41:31
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@waterbabyš“ó §ó ¢ó ³ó £ó “ó æ :
42. never wanted kids. just had a tummy tuck. now slightly feeling maternal. but if i try next year at 43 will i be too old??? šššššš
2026-07-09 00:32:28
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Jade Emmaline š :
I actually genuinely never ever wanted children. It was a known thing from when i was young.. I now have a 14 yr old daughter and 8 yr old son. The moment i knew i was pregnant, my whole life and opinion changed. Thankfully!
2026-07-07 18:24:57
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nĆamh š¤āØ :
I love the honesty and transparencyā¤ļøhaving children isnāt for everyone and that is okay. Some women do want kids & some donāt, everyoneās path & support system is different.
2026-07-07 18:00:28
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Zuzana.Kalistova :
I was judging people who didnāt want kids until I became parent. Now I understand that itās not for everyone.
2026-07-08 19:49:04
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Anaiaš :
I never wanted children and had a baby last year. I couldnāt bring myself to not have him and heās the best thing that ever happened to me not saying itās not hard but heās so worth it
2026-07-07 17:48:01
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Emilia_WÄ grodzkaā¤ļø :
Couldnt agree more xx
2026-07-07 17:43:00
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Amy Wren :
I didn't want children, but now I have 2 I'm so thankful for them both it's changed me in so many way! I absolutely adore them
2026-07-09 06:05:10
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avapoppyrogers :
i really donāt feel it is for me though it is the norm to have children
2026-07-07 22:24:51
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user1482434094098 :
Does anyone know where I can buy these kind of tops from?
2026-07-07 22:48:31
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Charlotteš :
I absolutely hated the newborn stage. Now that baby is older itās getting better, but youāre right I wasnāt convinced I wanted to be a parent yet, and I hated every second of it
2026-07-21 13:33:43
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lisa šø :
So true
2026-07-07 17:48:14
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Lauren Saddington ⨠:
Love this šš¼
2026-07-09 21:14:28
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user86446897659 :
This is soooo true. I love being a mum to the depths of my bones, our little one was very much wanted and planned after 7 years of marriage, but Iām glad weāre only having one. š I always thought I was going to have loads growing up!
2026-07-07 20:56:40
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