@nikitadumptruck: Progressive men have always scared me in ways I wasn’t quite able to articulate until I read THIS line from the Graham Platner article. This is not to say all are like this, but enough are for there to be a serious issue we aren’t quite addressing

Dezmond Cushon :

As a leftist man I am always trying to think about how my actions or words could be rooted in misogyny and whenever I feel like it might be I hit up my sis and try to learn to be better.

Cat Circumciser 🍉 ☭ :

I was with you until you mentioned chivalry

mazel.tov.cocktail 🪬🧿🤠🧿🪬 :

I see you’ve met my ex

Amanditam :

Do people forget dolores huerta only this year discussed what happened with cesar chavez

Cynxy :

Ohhh ik, I used to do this, thank god my therapist called me out

imnotallamma :

Something I learned a long time ago is just because I agree with someone politically doesn’t mean I have to like them

chickenscuttlemonkey :

Married progressive girl dad here, absolutely listening and taking this to heart. This is good stuff.

Peruda Florit :

Neil Gaiman

DevPatrick :

Wow, I can get defensive with these kinds of vids without even noticing. That “don’t feel attacked” disclaimer helped me realize my shoulders were up, and my brows were tense. Said to myself “let me listen, I might learn something”. Sure enough, I did.

Kevin :

Dolores Huerta stayed silent and regretted it for years.

FormicOClok :

A good man should be discerning about himself. He needs to acknowledge his faults, apologize when he is wrong, and HERE IS THE IMPORTANT PART: DO BETTER NEXT TIME.

Tim Grimshaw-Mendez :

Progressive man here, I’m taking notes. It’s been a journey unlearning everything I’ve grown up with, I will take this and make that change.

✨️ YOU'RE WORTH EVERYTHING ✨️ :

"good" people don't automatically equal good partners. I needed to know that in my 20s but I'm only learning at almost 40

Jo :

Progressive guy here! Always learning, it doesn’t stop! 👌🏼

Hi, I'm Annika! :

I literally used to think I had "let the last romantic in the world go" back a few years... now you made me question 😂

Rafael Cocchini :

la chocha prieta :

im so glad I learned this at such a young age

Ion :

Taking notes cause as a progressive as i am and can see how easy it is to fall into this

Brendan FN James :

it's hard to distinguish the performance from the actions which is why I just trust actions over words.

waterbuffalo750 :

Put another way, someone's politics don't determine whether they're a good person.

Mark Riechers :

You can believe in the right ways to work on society as a distraction from working on yourself. Never stop trying to be better. (Speaking for myself only)

DefNotSanji :

Every time you pop up on my feed you are dropping straight up bangers. SPOT TF ON!

Big.tiny :

As far leftists man, I try to be hyper aware of this. And I check in with a few of my trusted homegirls and sisters to see if I’m doing something by wrong or where I can improve. But I agree with this sentiment 100%