@helena_earls: as a little girl, i believed becoming beautiful would make me invincible. i would never have to feel the deep pain of rejection that was so frequent in my childhood. i was wrong. #innerchildhealing #feministiktok #objectification #traumatok
I can't speak for your experience, but listening to you made me think of something. For me, when I worked to be "beautiful" in the way society talks about, my body was at its most unhealthy. Truly taking care of my body, I look at myself in the mirror and feel beautiful as my body looks healthier than it ever has. It's a wild experience.
2026-07-07 20:32:46
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SalanatRavanClub :
what do we do with the void, the lack of maternal love, i am 40 and tired of doing all the work, I am exhausted. I feel like I can never truly recover from this lack, this infacy and childhood love, nothing replaces it. only struggling, especially in the social context....
2026-07-07 20:31:26
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SammerHammer :
wonderful message. thank you.❤️
2026-07-07 21:58:31
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Miss Sweet Dee :
From someone who always wanted, enjoyed, needed validation like this...I love this take. I'm now 50, and that need has gone. I now get validation from myself, my boyfriend, and the people who love me, and it's not about looks. 🥰
2026-07-07 20:26:31
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rosita :
my mom doesnt get it🙃🙃🙃
2026-07-08 06:42:02
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🦌💜✨️ :
So real
2026-07-07 21:19:03
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fordreams :
timing..omg
2026-07-07 21:24:40
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Rembulan Nauli :
girrrrrrrrrllllll so real
2026-07-07 21:29:18
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Corinne B :
💗💗💗💗💗
2026-07-08 02:23:06
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