@rewirewithrach: The need to be understood runs deep for a fearful avoidant so this is something you just gotta get on board with if you have a fearful avoidant partner. This doesn’t mean you read their mind or they don’t need to address their own attachment wounds but this is a major safety signal when they are met with curiousity. #attachmentstyle #Love #dating #rewirewithrach #fypシ

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greezyskeetskeetskillet
TheDirtyMustache :
Curiosity. When you ask a question they get immediately defensive! It’s a lose lose lose situation
2026-07-08 00:23:05
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kamilaguerrerori
Kamila Guerrero Richiéz :
But how can you know them if they constantly run away?
2026-07-07 18:42:23
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s0ulcrunch
s0ulcrunch🕉🛕🧘🏾‍♀️ :
is FA the same as disorganised attachment
2026-07-07 22:50:08
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saharpotter
Sahar Potter :
My FA opened up to me yesterday about how he feels taking me around his friends and I thank him for explaining himself and said I appreciated him trusting me with that! That was a huge milestone for us
2026-07-08 15:14:07
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dnicemart
d-hammer :
what happens when u tell them u want to get to know them and they meet u with ghosting?
2026-07-09 06:35:32
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jdubs1984
jdubdev :
Sometimes it’s like they want to hold on to being misunderstood. I can reflective listen and summarize in 15 ways, repeat back exactly and still told I don’t get it.
2026-07-08 15:54:20
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nasssssssiiiiim
N :
How to understand that they dont want to communicate their feelings and be ok with it? Its impossible
2026-07-08 22:46:21
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devonhayzlett
Sweet Dee :
I dont I tried this and it still didnt work.
2026-07-07 19:16:56
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bouncebackbluepri7
BounceBackBlueprint :
Im an FA and I‘m seeing someone who may be either DA or FA. Why doesn’t he ever ask me questions though? I am not big on hinting. My challenge is that I do keep it in and then I explode. I do sense he likes to hint instead of being direct. But I do approach him w a lot of curiousity but I dont get that curiousity back.
2026-07-07 20:55:00
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roscobosco
roscobosco :
Ugh this is why my partner’s been so good to me. He never assumes.
2026-07-08 13:15:19
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soleil.skin.studio
Le soleil.skin.studio :
Except you can’t ask them any questions
2026-07-08 14:28:05
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____gh_28 :
They will not open up at all if they’re unhealed
2026-07-07 20:04:40
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azulosah
azulosah :
me and my FA 9 months into something... there was no questions asked 😂😂😂 i think we both liked it this way 😂😂
2026-07-07 21:06:59
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monkeygrey_
Run_From_Grey :
Look into the camera and say "Kael NO!" and use the most monotone voice you got. Trust me...
2026-07-10 07:23:51
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sickofthecorruption
Sickofthecorruption 💙 :
No. We don’t need to understand. They need to heal and grow up and be accountable.
2026-07-08 10:42:35
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user41044214
David J.M. :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-07-08 07:35:15
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