@caleajane_: Some people don’t understand how exhausting it is to constantly compensate for their lack of action. People who lack urgency don’t respect you or your time! #accountability#procrastination#toxictraits
Careful all the "well I have ADHD" people are gonna bean soup you
2026-07-08 11:44:13
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Brí uh Dan Yell :
I always view this as a lack of consideration
2026-07-07 22:42:03
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𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐝𝐨𝐱 :
They like to use “you’re on my time” just because they’re helping you
2026-07-08 02:34:56
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lightsouturbex✨️ :
asking for a ride then making me wait 15 to 30 mins
2026-07-09 12:38:56
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Stargirl ✨ :
Especially at work. The lack of urgency that some people have at work is exhausting.
2026-07-08 16:16:54
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Sandytoze :
I explained this to my hubby…some people think they are “chill” and “go with the flow” but that makes the flow somebody else’s problem and responsibility.
2026-07-08 02:11:54
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Cabbles🥬 :
"I have adhd" accomodate yourself 😭😭😭😭😭😭tf😭😭😭you got a phone in your hand 😭😭😭😭
2026-07-08 21:08:09
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Angela carpenter :
"but I HaVE TiMe bLinDnESs." no the fuck you dont. you just lack respect for others time. set an alarm. set five. I don't care. but learn how to manage your freaking time better. because those same people dont have an issue with it when its time to clock out of work for the day or be on time for something they really want to go to. its only when it's going to inconvenience others that their "time blindness" becomes a problem.
2026-07-10 14:42:49
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Deon :
Not to mention people who drive slow during an emergency
2026-07-08 14:17:20
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Rosie Posie :
I have adhd and I have a constant sense of urgency
2026-07-08 20:55:30
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Pancake :
People struggle with taking personal responsibility for things they do. "I have ADHD." Okay. you're an adult and that's not a reason to neglect responsibilities. Learn some tools/skills to cope. It's not impossible because you have ADHD.
2026-07-08 20:58:06
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autonomicpotsie :
I always say “poor planning on YOUR part, does NOT equate an emergency on MINE.”
2026-07-09 15:50:41
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Mz. Kesha :
You have to stick to the time schedule & move without them. If y’all plan to leave at a certain time, leave without them. If the meeting is from 2-3 and they show up at 2:30, the meeting still ends at 3
2026-07-08 17:54:27
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count3rf3it :
"I have ADHD" I actually don't care. I have ADHD, you will never see me make someone wait on me like that. it's rude. learn to better yourself
2026-07-10 21:30:46
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Lone Ranger :
"well i have ADHD", well manage it since you're aware of it 🙄. An explanation is not an excuse.
2026-07-10 12:13:20
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tocabocawueen :
coworker asked me to pick her up one time. i was waiting outside her house for 10-15 minutes. mind you i started an hour before she did😑 never again
2026-07-09 18:57:09
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🎀YEMI OKANLAWON🎀 :
💯Some people treat everyone and everything with a lack of urgency. It is annoying!
2026-07-07 23:51:29
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theaureliag :
A family member was on the way to my house to drop something off and said they were 5 minutes away. I had other stuff to do. 5 minutes went by, I left. Time is money. I don’t wait on anybody.
2026-07-08 23:46:10
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bwm26 :
ADHD here and unfortunately I have a high sense of urgency but I procrastinate every single time. The only person it hurts is myself though 🤣.
2026-07-08 14:49:56
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user28576141337735 :
I invited my best friend to anime con and I told her we need to EARLY so I can see the cast of bg3, we did not get there on time and I cried so hard i feel anger towards her for that. She has no sense of urgency always late to everything
2026-07-08 15:21:36
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Shay the They :
Parents
2026-07-09 14:27:01
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🌸~CherryKitsune~🌸 :
Not being on time is one of rudest things you could ever do to people. Time is one of the only things you can never get back.
2026-07-10 12:11:50
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cheddargirlish :
If it’s for other ppl I’m urgent as hell. But on my own? The procrastination gets to me real bad
2026-07-08 18:45:31
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Brittany, RN :
And then they’ll get pissed if you don’t follow their timeline or when they’re in a hurry
2026-07-10 09:54:56
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