Chris Seiter
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Wednesday 08 July 2026 15:00:00 GMT
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Natalia🌸 :
good to know he just never loved me enough 🫠
2026-07-08 15:32:33
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egzonadee :
A few weeks before we broke up, I asked him if he had any fears about me, and he replied, "Yes, fear of losing you." The day he left me, he said, "Did you see that I was hurting you?"
2026-07-24 19:32:48
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user8171135609852 :
Does it help if you tell your avoidant that you dont want to lose them???
2026-07-08 17:26:30
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Emily Dedo :
Well shoot, good to know that the feeling of not being enough by them has psychological backing. I wasn’t the one that he changed for because I wasn’t the one that he ever feared losing. My god, may this kind of love never find me again.
2026-07-11 00:57:55
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Beebabe :
l wasnt important to him.
2026-08-30 07:37:32
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tryingtosurvive :
He broke up with me twice. He came back those 2 times. The second time he came back he was saying “Something is wrong with me. I want to go therapy so we can work things out. I love you so much, don’t wanna lose you. I want us to move forward and get married”. Yet he broke up with me saying “I don’t know what I want. I don’t wanna hurt you anymore”
2026-07-29 07:24:15
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Brookie D💋 :
This is the first time I have heard this- and this is what my husband has said. When we were dating, I did leave. No contact and leveled up my attachment to secure for the most part.. but!! We’ve been together 11 years and I am genuinely becoming more confused on how his mind works, and all the info is always sk negative.. basically I’m screwed and he’ll never change. But he has made changes for me, and he has lost me and knows that that is the one thing he needs/wants in life. He’s also a combat veteran and has had severe TBIs, CTE and PTSD and so on, and we have fought thru all of that and more, and so he has overcame ALOT of challenges in order to be the man I need and he wants to be.. but the lack of emotional connection i think has finally taken a toll on me, and in my 30s now I am very concerned for starting a family.. I will not ever make a child go thru the emotional pain and insecurity that I deal with with him, and my window for kids is closing and I am.. worried. Idk what to do.. other than pray and trust God and do what I can to make the best decision.. but I love this man like nothing else.. I hate the trauma he has experienced.. it makes me upset at his parents, but understanding that it’s a cycle and his parents also suffered.. so there my empathetic heart cycles lol ✨🙏🏻🫶
2026-07-17 16:09:48
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tai :
welp then she aint love me
2026-07-09 23:47:12
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mallik.803 :
I wanted to be the one to do this for her. If it’s not me, I hope she finds the one, because she deserves to be happy.
2026-08-05 22:54:34
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roberttullos2 :
I hear all these things you say, know that she is way to smart and knows about attachment theory.
2026-07-24 21:08:36
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Ari💗 :
He held onto me for years we share a three year old son I know he loved me but his family didn't want him with me and he is completely reliant on their approval and he did not want to have to grow .... he is extremely avoidant but int he end he chose his comfort
2026-07-10 13:19:42
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Hannah :
Sad ! He didn’t love me 🙂
2026-07-08 21:11:25
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user4773387310824 :
What about if he broke up with you? Will time apart make him fear losing me for good?
2026-07-08 18:14:11
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Stacy Hayden Gonzalez :
Losing me is apparently scarier 🥰
2026-07-09 07:32:39
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moraissan :
then she didn't loved me at all. sad
2026-07-08 15:54:54
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ImRich :
so avoidant can fell love for someone ??
2026-07-09 13:14:02
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pdovgi :
but how long does that take for them to realize
2026-07-09 00:10:37
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Princess pan fried :
He is back in full swing but I’m choosing myself he is now mad that he picked a pepper from his plant and wanted me to have it I said no. He called me then hung up on me. After what he has just put me thru that was his peace offering omg it’s so sad I miss him so much and care about him it’s hard not to text him rn
2026-07-08 15:49:25
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