@healingbythenumbers_: I was relieved to learn that, in my situation, I didn’t have to hand it to him myself. Certified mail ended up being the safest option for me. Now all I had to do was wait for his reaction… ❤️ Part 3 coming tomorrow OR If you’d rather hear the full story today, it’s already on my YouTube channel (link in stories/bio). ⚠️ This was my personal experience obtaining and serving a PPO in Michigan. Laws and procedures vary by state, county, and country, so this should not be considered legal advice. If you’re considering a protection order, I encourage you to speak with a local victim advocate, attorney, or domestic violence organization about the process where you live. #DomesticViolenceAwareness #PersonalProtectionOrder #AbuseRecovery #Dontgoback #CertifiedMail

Dr. Ruth | That Was Abuse
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niamhmunds
niamhmunds :
So he broke the PPO after 18minutes??
2026-07-07 21:27:24
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txjester
txjester :
find a local biker club.
2026-07-08 16:53:48
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cageekgirl
CAGeekgirl 🇨🇦 :
Was he allowed to email you with a PPO in place?
2026-07-07 21:28:12
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beepboop.8008
Flapjack 🐳 :
Idk but typically the police are required to serve him at no cost to you….
2026-07-08 00:05:49
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harrymayle2011
Harry :
I don't understand why they can't just mail them it, do they not realise the situation this can put people in?
2026-07-07 21:12:08
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izabella10_0
Izabella 🍒🎲🎱 :
In my county office serve all restraining orders and protection from abuse
2026-07-11 08:25:23
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carlymarie.14
Carly :
That’s SO wild. the courts had a process server do it for my mom and we live in Hicksville
2026-07-08 01:02:23
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oliviagrace91232
liv :
what state are you in that the court is not serving protection orders???? this is absurd to me
2026-07-10 22:46:39
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kyliemojo
Kylie Hawn :
So it's wild how laws and processes like serving these orders vary wildly from the state to state.
2026-07-11 16:00:25
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vivariumrats
FRAN!! :
its so messed up that it was your responsibility 😕
2026-07-07 21:10:09
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katpagan6
Queer Aussie Mumma 🇦🇺 :
in Australia the Police must serve all protection orders and they need to notify you once its served
2026-07-08 09:51:12
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offthegardenpath
Nobody :
I'm surprised your attorney's office wouldn't have served it for you? They should've been able to send it via certified mail from their office
2026-07-07 21:40:23
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joseph998664
Gurrrrrrl82 :
Ohhhh I bet he was PISSED
2026-07-07 21:22:59
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sesquipedalio5
sesquipedalio :
the lawyer cant serve it?
2026-07-08 02:27:16
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gothwithagarden
✨ͯ×DANIͯ×✨ :
Thankfully in my state a local sheriff will serve PFA paperwork
2026-07-08 02:29:59
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sonjablade81
Sonja :
Why are you responsible for that?? Thats insane
2026-07-08 17:49:06
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emmavanripper95
Emma VanRipper ☠🖤 :
In the state of Ohio, the sheriff serves the orders. I’ve had to file a protection order on my ex and the sheriff served it to him.
2026-07-08 03:08:04
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notmegangreen
Meg 🇨🇦 :
Thank you so much for sharing all of this, I know it must take a lot. But I have to say, you’re an INCREDIBLE story teller and you’re having such a huge impact on people’s lives ❤️
2026-07-07 21:19:03
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lavender6727
Lavender :
Lots of places you can also ask the sheriff’s department to serve it for you. I think there’s still a fee, but it may be safer for everyone involved.
2026-07-08 00:48:15
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drowsywolf
Drowsy :
You can also always go to a cop and ask them. Had to do it for my dad
2026-07-09 13:06:29
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dohzer88
dohzer :
In australia the police serve it automatically after the judge signs the order. When they do you get a call and email from the police confirming the delivery. If they are out of the country they will serve it at the airport on their return or if in another state the police in that state will do it.
2026-07-08 04:04:38
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randomgoopfloof
Ray SteelScale :
you give it to a sibling or a parent or your attourney, and they serve it. alternatively, Certified mail also counts as the recipient has to sign for it.
2026-07-08 01:10:27
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notunfriendlylibrarian
Crissy Brown42 :
oh man i need the tea on that email!
2026-07-08 05:28:25
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minipatsgirl
Kristy :
Sheriffs office and police station can also assist with serving papers
2026-07-07 22:38:58
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kalianilove
Kaliani :
this is actually so dangerous omg
2026-07-07 21:26:34
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