@themegoja: Hidden pages of the diary #eldestdaughter #eldestdaughterproblems #diaryofaneldestdaughter

ACSnook :

and constantly be told "you're the hardest person to buy for" when in reality I'm not. 😁

Sarah | Mom of 2 🐣👶🏻 :

People keep buying me stuff in purple, because it’s my fav color, well it was when I was 10… I am 30

Vic 🇨🇦 :

And yet I yearn for just one person to care about me in the way I care about them 😅

Chicktock21 :

Why are we like this?

Crochetingllama :

last Christmas I didnt go through that effort and it was so freeing but I still feel guilty to this day.

Ana Lyma 🇵🇷 :

dont forget that we remember everyone's allergies

Jenn K :

When I first got a gift in my early 20s that I didn’t have to tell them to buy, I literally broke down in tears.

HBCosgrave :

I don’t know how I found you but I’m so glad that I did. ❤️😂

Dani2807 :

Funny my dad tells me he knows me better than I know me.

Kay 💕 :

I know everyone’s birthday and this includes my in laws now, it does extend when you get a partner sadly.

Rachel :

Lisa Erdahl :

Gotta be honest - I’m an eldest daughter and I don’t know any of this. But I’m also not close to my family at all. 🥺

Kiki042713 :

Ooof 🫪

flamingomom84 :

So true. I also have 9 siblings. I don’t know it all about them now but growing up I did

Blank :

my cousins, mind you MY COUSINS, call me when asked their blood type.

Jamie_Michealle🇨🇦 :

And they never spend any time on finding you a good present. Zero thought, zero effort and get given junk if anything at all. Ex. A craft made in a class they wanted to take with their friends... not my style or my colors just something they made and had no room for, so now I get to deal with it... I tell them not to buy me stuff, so I literally do not have to deal with more crap.

WhoArted :

unfortunately I'm a poor. and so adults don't buy for each other for holidays. But if we did.. I would nail it. But I'm the odd one out. I'm the weird one that doesn't go along to get along with problematic people in our extended family.

Genie on a Sidequest :

Can I recommend: A. Being gay. B. Dating another type A eldest daughter. Like… I’ve still got everyone’s details on lock, but she throws me a dang good birthday party and says things like “you’re actually quite easy to buy for. It’s hard to not over-buy.” 10/10 experience.