@burned_notbroken: Replying to @Luke Lyons I believe that a BOP can *present* as an avoidant but I don’t think they truly are avoidant. I think they are self-protective. #burnedoutpursuer #relationshipburnout #attachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle

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xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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jdbarker82
Joshua D. Barker :
Can you expand more on this. Like what you can do to get connection again
2026-07-08 15:08:24
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outta_the_way_peck
B :
we start giving the same energy we've been getting. it becomes painful to pursue and keep being rewarded with rejection.
2026-07-09 00:13:09
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basically.run
basically.run :
🙋‍♂️Hi!! This is me. I was pretty anxious with my kids’ mom. She was avoidant to the extreme. After we divorced, I realized I had become avoidant in my next relationship.
2026-07-08 22:16:32
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aye_aye081
Aye Aye :
What does it usually mean when a avoidant after three weeks of leaving wants to now be a friend and is there and can tell the connection has something there and how do I as a pursuer try to build in that further connection?
2026-07-08 03:52:27
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roo11k
Luke Lyons :
Much appreciated, I was really confused because it seemed her attitude towards me shifted on a dime. Thanks for shedding some light.
2026-07-08 01:57:30
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whatwat25
whatwat25 :
I’m anxious and I’ve dated an avoidant for 1.5 years. And I’ve never reached the exhausted standpoint. At least not exhausted enough to walk away. I hope and pray daily I’d turn avoidant and leave.
2026-07-07 23:50:24
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labmom150
EB :
The more I’m learning the more I realize that I have become more aware of being a dismissive avoidance type person- however this gives me hope that it may not be the case. How do you work back though and can you skip over being anxious??????
2026-07-08 11:10:44
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whatwat25
whatwat25 :
Also your videos are awesome. You stood up for yourself. You became exhausted rightfully so. Congrats on taking care of yourself.
2026-07-07 23:51:19
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