Okay so… if you want them to start missing you, checking for you, and chasing you again, do this: 🌺 Stop Clocking Their Every Move If you’re checking their page 20 times a day, stalking reposts, watching stories instantly, and keeping tabs on who they follow, you’re still completely focused on them. When all that attention suddenly disappears, they notice the shift. That’s when they start wondering what changed, what you’re doing, and why you’re no longer checking for them. 🌺 Stop Making Them Your Secret Target Audience The second every post becomes a hidden message aimed at your ex, you’re still performing for them. Become harder to read. When they can no longer tell if you miss them, if you’ve moved on, or if someone else has your attention now, curiosity starts kicking in. That’s when they start watching your page harder and overthinking everything. 🌺 Let The Silence Get LOUD No random “just checking on you” texts. No liking old pictures. No fake excuses to reach out. Every time you break the silence, you reassure them that you’re still there. When that reassurance disappears, they actually have to sit with your absence. That’s when they start wondering if you’re done for real, if you’ve moved on, and whether they’re actually losing you. 🌺 Use The Bowcat Method The Bowcat Method is a visualization technique specifically for breakups, no contact, and specific person situations. It helps manifest them back into your life. It’s definitely a life hack. Instead of you being the one obsessing over them all the time, it completely flips everything so it’s the other way around. This is usually the point where they start reaching out again, overthinking, dreaming of you, reliving memories, and asking for another chance. And the results you girlies have been getting are absolutely amazing. 👀 If you don’t know how to do it yet, it’s at the top of my profile, and you can also get it inside my VIP area. 🌺 Stop Folding Over One Tiny Breadcrumb One little text, one view, or one random like does NOT mean fold immediately. If they learn that bare minimum attention gets full access to you again, they have no reason to do more. But when those little breadcrumbs stop working, that’s when they realize they actually have to put in effort, reach out properly, and chase if they want access to you again. #nocontact #breakupadvice #specificperson #relationshiptips - @subliminalsamira