@thepottymouthguru: Replying to @Natalie Massingill One of the biggest myths about accountability is that it requires one person to disappear. It doesn't. Healthy relationships don't ask you to sacrifice your experience so someone else's can exist. They ask you to resist using your experience to unintentionally defend against theirs. There's a difference. Sometimes your hurt belongs later in the conversation. Not because it's less important. Because people are often better able to hear it once they feel heard themselves. In secure relationships, accountability isn't the end of your story. It's the beginning of a conversation where both people eventually have room to be fully understood. The healthiest repairs don't choose between "your pain" or "my pain." They make space for both. ❤️🤟🏻🌿 #UNFUCKYOURSELF #THEPOTTYMOUTHGURU #HealthyCommunication #Relationships #AttachmentHealin

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The goal isn't for one person to be heard and the other to stay silent. The goal is for both people to feel understood without either person's pain being used to cancel the other's. Sometimes the difference isn't whose feelings matter. It's the order in which they're held. ❤️🤟🏻
2026-07-08 00:24:54
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Victoria Shaw Intuitive :
love how you explained this! ♥️
2026-07-08 07:27:32
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Wen :
that makes great sense.I just wish the shutdown and avoidance would stop after they have aired their hurt and I get gaslight that my feelings are not their responsibility. like yeah I'm responsible for my reaction however the hurt still exists. I gave up after years of excuses of why I didn't matter
2026-07-08 01:21:26
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