also it's hard when there are negative people in their ear encouraging them to leave you.
2026-07-08 00:20:11
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🩷🖤🤍💙🧡 :
Yeah but how many times do they come back before they stop?
2026-07-08 03:39:46
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connorkerr2.0 :
no they dont they distract themselves with someone else and then you never hear from them again
2026-07-08 07:25:23
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Karen Kassaleh :
Not true! I’m going on 2 years and I haven’t heard anything! All relationships are different
2026-07-08 01:59:44
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-_Suiter :
Does anyone want to talk ? I’m going through it rn
2026-07-08 03:36:02
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Sinf e Ahan 1823 :
it's 7 month of no contact. I text him but he seen and ignore (no reply) he is avoident. tell me what to do now 🙂
2026-07-08 06:57:09
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Dena Cade :
We, the anxious are the only ones to really end the cycle 🥺
2026-07-08 16:47:55
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Shalin Sandhu 🇲🇾 :
They will come back if they are having an issue with their rebound. It’s always works that way. They will keep everyone around, one little wave and they missed you and a breadcrumb. So, no thanks. I’m glad I can feel myself detaching.
2026-07-08 10:32:07
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manny manny :
an avoidant is toomuch work
2026-07-09 02:37:27
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Nancy :
We’re long distance we went 3 months no contact he was just watching my socials. However he has communicated 2x in the last 2 weeks, I’m just confused cause we’re 600 miles away why won’t he just look for someone in his proximity
2026-07-08 02:05:48
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Lala :
Even when they want a divorce
2026-07-08 01:24:39
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Sara :
No they don’t!
2026-07-08 03:02:34
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Sharkirsyad :
what do you mean that they will come back all the time ? let's put aside the time it took to come back. But why are you saying that you are certain they will come back ? what prompt them to do that ? like how are you that certain, as an ex-avoidant ? any stories or confirmation about that ?
i'm actually genuinely curious.
2026-07-08 02:57:58
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__nenii :
I left him 💅🏻
2026-07-08 23:43:28
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allgespraeche :
he wants distance but he told me if I really need someone I can message him...over 6 weeks after he broke up with me while telling me all the reasons why it wouldn't work out...
2026-07-08 10:57:40
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Britt :
mine told me " you know how I feel, I have a hard time showing how I feel, but you know"- 2 weeks before he left...
we are now 6 months of no contact
2026-07-08 13:16:26
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Cami Acevedo :
What if my avoidant is going to therapy
2026-07-08 13:45:01
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Moretti :
It’s been 41. He hasn’t reached out. He hasn’t even looked at my account. He doesn’t give af. I’ve gone no contact.
2026-07-08 05:19:41
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DahktorPepper :
After a year my avoidant didnt reach back out. So I guess that’s a good thing?
2026-07-09 01:25:18
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Gamblemanmike23 :
Claim
2026-07-08 01:26:02
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Alex Daltas Voice Actor :
Thank you again for posting all of these videos. They have been so helpful and I really can’t tell you how yours specifically have been incredibly healing and enlightening for me. You’re doing great work. These posts matter. Thank you again.
2026-07-08 00:41:42
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unknownowener :
Praying for everyone 🙏
2026-07-09 01:11:52
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highrise13 :
I wish I could record this reality show I’m in we divorced 7 years ago have a kid she came back we dated a year she stopped having sex started devaluing me found out her dad stole all her money went ape broke up w me now playing cat and mouse cause she knows I’ll do it for my kid I have no self worth I should bounce and block but she keeps using the kid as a pawn help
2026-07-08 06:40:34
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wilddthing :
We just broke up again for the 8th time but this time he said he needs to break the pattern and date other people asap! 😭😭😩 is it over fr fr this time?
2026-07-08 04:18:42
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M_S_P :
So they were able to communicate well during the pursuit.. why the "don't know" now 🤷♀️😏
2026-07-10 01:17:00
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