so what do i do?? I love her and I dont want to leave her. no matter how much I try or tell her how to treat me and how to get better she doesnt change anything. I dont know what to do.
2026-07-10 23:50:42
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carfonk :
okay that made me feel a little better because while I know I'm part of the problem sometimes I question if I am overreacting
2026-07-10 17:44:17
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Bondimb3001 :
I set boundaries and I end up apologizing for what it does to her…explain that one.
2026-07-09 17:43:00
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pikalilly2021 :
how do I not be so anxious when he not talking to me?
2026-07-08 17:32:50
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kay • see 🎧 :
i’m sobbing bc i was in this for so long
2026-07-08 21:21:18
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Godsgirl1234 a :
Right. And a stopping of abuse isn’t love either.
2026-07-09 15:13:27
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a•sensical :
Wait. Am I in an emotionally abusive relationship?
2026-07-08 18:59:16
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amandaleigh :
love this. no one is perfect!
2026-07-08 18:10:09
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ne :
This hits home actually
2026-07-08 22:12:52
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Christopher NJ - :
Holy shit this is the best one you’ve had yet my second best ever
2026-07-08 20:59:15
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Cecil Sherwood :
I have. But still alone and left behind
2026-07-08 18:37:14
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Paulyanna :
Saved for the next time I question if I’m the problem.
2026-07-08 18:55:40
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KINGSMAN :
I wish you could directly help me and my woman.
2026-07-08 17:34:48
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JennyO33 :
This was so helpful
2026-07-09 17:09:13
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Kitty Ray :
I can't deny these are my thoughts every night
2026-07-08 17:43:19
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SS¡rSS¡lvɛr :
I'm happy to finally be in a healthy relationship
2026-07-08 18:13:42
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jadethomart :
He said “Are They?” In the correct tone. Thanks for the acknowledgement
2026-07-08 19:07:01
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Christasbliss 💕 :
Yep
2026-07-09 03:14:45
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Bert Macklin, FBI :
I get boundaries, but those advice feels like how to build an evidence file. that's fine but not transparent
2026-07-08 18:22:00
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AndTheyWereGood :
this is exactly why I stopped with all the "avoidant attachment" relationship advice. I was researching everything i could find about how to get us to communicate better, and then one day it clicked: he wasnt doing anything like that at all. I was bending over backwards to accommodate him to get him to hear how he was treating me badly, none of it was working, and he wasnt trying to help himself/us *at all*.
fuck that.
2026-07-09 13:26:39
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Nuha⁷ :
I know it's not your content type but what I do when it's not your partner but your parent. I can only think of no contact.
2026-07-08 17:51:39
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Althea :
I got stuff like "well, I guess I'm justba terrible husband then" or "I didn't mean it that way and now you knowni didn't mean it that way you should be totally OK with it so stop overreacting"
2026-07-09 07:10:30
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Katie D👑 :
It's nice having someone see where I'm coming from without me trying to explain it 100 different ways, cause someone is twisting my words and accusing me of having different intentions. But this is exactly what I've been trying to say, but I'm being portrayed as the toxic one or labeled as the combative one.... but I do wonder, why don't they feel safe with me ? If I try everything to hold that space for them?
2026-07-08 22:15:51
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Cristiana Busetti :
he think is sooo perfect...he just think he is not doing anything wrong...but then suppose is a bit my fault...i just pretend everything is fine and that i am happy...sick and tired of asking him to listen to me...or a explanation why is hurting me so much
2026-07-08 19:27:02
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RelationshipBase :
100% facts
2026-07-08 19:32:34
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