@feminworth: Matthew Hussey is known for giving practical relationship advice that helps people stop chasing potential and start choosing themselves. His message is simple, but it can save years of heartbreak: Stop investing based on how much you like someone. Start investing based on how much they invest in you. So many people confuse their own feelings for compatibility. They think, “I like them so much, this has to work.” But healthy relationships aren’t built by one person caring enough for two. What makes Matthew’s perspective so powerful is that he reminds us to look at actions instead of emotions. Who makes time for you? Who shows consistency? Who chooses you without making you question where you stand? What Matthew represents, and why he belongs in this space, is someone who encourages people to match effort instead of chasing validation. Because love should be mutual. Not something you have to earn. Her message reflects a deeper truth: stop investing your heart where someone isn’t investing theirs. Follow @feminworth for more. #selfworth #powerwomen #independent #confidence
Wish it’s that easy. I wouldn’t invest in my kids interest and then watch them quit. 😩
2026-07-13 13:27:38
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JustHer :
Who will invest first🤣🤣
2026-07-09 07:07:11
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AImindset :
Absolutely!
2026-07-13 13:11:19
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Tamara-Lyn :
That's a really great way to begin looping in a reality that we control. 🙃
Energy goes where thoughts go. Trust yourself not within a measurement of something outside of self.
2026-07-12 17:38:07
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retro :
invest? may I never end up with someone who thinks the heart is an economic matter
2026-07-10 10:42:38
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Amelia Robinson :
AI dropshipping helped me stop counting every dollar before spending it.
2026-07-13 04:28:11
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Williedo1979 :
And my best friends fit that bill. I will give them everything.
2026-07-12 05:19:31
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黒絽🕷️ :
Everyone knows that, however what happens is the heartbreak comes from when the person who is investing stops investing and you don’t know why
2026-07-12 10:57:54
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Sir S :
I’ve been invested in and the mutual feelings were there in the beginning and then slowly faded when I became the center of their lives. Me working towards my goals turned to time spent away from them which was problematic and a turn off. There’s a limit of course!
2026-07-10 22:31:54
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Derek brown :
Heartbreak is what makes you human
2026-07-12 22:51:33
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Ellen :
He loved me so much and ‘invested’ everything in me. Then he just slowly lost interest and couldn’t give me what I need anymore :(
2026-07-10 22:37:21
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G world :
But he seemed so invested at the beginning? So then I was sold, and was committed completely. Then thrown away after 3 years. 💔
2026-07-11 20:20:34
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Boris Banjac :
But shouldn’t in relationships be “we” and no “me or you”?
2026-07-09 22:43:29
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RW 💛 :
The guy I have been speaking to so far has treated me amazingly he is everything I want in a man can communicate respectful consistent remembers little things about me, he even wrote me a poem I will never settle for anything less than
2026-07-10 19:31:15
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Momsiemoms :
This is not applicable cause lots of people invest in the beginning, then when you get comfortable they bail without giving any reason….
2026-07-08 22:24:25
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daleadamson20 :
doesn't matter how much you invest in someone it's trusting they will do the same so and let's be honest sooner or later that trust slowly fades away
2026-07-09 21:58:13
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Brownie 🍑✨ :
❤️❤️
2026-07-10 02:30:51
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Bosslady👑 :
is it financial or emotional investment we are talking abt
2026-07-09 19:42:13
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Abi xx :
Yeah I did exactly that! He was consistent! He made plans, he showed up and then just walked away!! 🤷🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
2026-07-11 20:21:23
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aynisa.smkh :
It’s a bit of a controversial thought, because if no one is willing to invest first, everyone will just keep waiting for the other person to make the first move. That’s how relationships never get the chance to grow
2026-07-11 19:57:12
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Chickenlicken :
That’s so transactional, invest in people you like but don’t expect or need anything back.
2026-07-11 16:25:36
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Destiny Mullins :
Wish it was that easy can’t help who u fall in love with
2026-07-13 01:10:45
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Solearch1976 :
...someone has to be the 1st
2026-07-13 07:42:03
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user6280793304361 :
Amén
2026-07-12 23:39:47
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