@themoderndreamgirl: It’s clear communication AND it’s gross 🌸 voice memo guy is another example of just how low the bar is for men to be considered a good person. #themoderndreamgirl #women #men

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fiter2500
fiter2500 :
we dont know what he said on the first date
2026-07-09 18:21:52
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romanroysprmanager
kiwi ⊹🥝⟡ :
I love you girl never change🙏
2026-07-09 17:24:58
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humanhickory
HumanHickory :
is that Cava?
2026-07-09 03:38:49
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_ss.haze
_ss.haze :
thank u so much
2026-07-09 17:54:17
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rainingtreespls
rainingtrees system🌈🌲 :
Keep in mind, he said this AFTER she had already said “idk if i want to do that”.
2026-07-09 06:08:45
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thewoodsrang
TheWoodsRang :
Also what if she agreed to the 2nd date, and then he did or said something that turned her off? How do you think he would’ve reacted to her “no” at that point?
2026-07-09 11:42:32
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meghamuse
megh muse :
also exactly it literally is NOT CASUAL for us when we risk EVERYTHING
2026-07-09 12:40:42
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tlahuelpuchis
🖤 :
and the fact that she already said no before the voice note
2026-07-09 12:28:30
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jamal95344
Jamal :
You’re acting like he was expecting her to be ok with it, he was just letting her know his intentions before things got too serious. He isn’t telling her what they’re going to do together and he’s not shaming her if she doesn’t want to
2026-07-09 00:38:30
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hozo_the_bozo
hozothebozo :
I mean I've listened to his voice note and nowhere did he say that he wasn't looking for a serious relationship, he just said that sexual compatability is very important to him which yeah it's kinda fair, I may personally agree that it would be too fast but there is nothing wrong if it isn't for him
2026-07-09 11:03:49
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theannaofalltime
theannaofalltime :
It was also open and honest communication. It was the bare minimum but there was nothing wrong with it.
2026-07-09 01:07:56
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porciniiii
Hannah 🇨🇦 :
Idk this is reading into it too much. I’m a woman looking for a serious relationship but I want to confirm sexual compatibility pretty soon. Both things can be true at once
2026-07-09 00:30:02
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alexxxadventures
Alex :
THANK YOU 😊 I was literally screaming watching the video where the woman was trying to say that it was consent. Nothing about what he said was OK.
2026-07-09 13:13:18
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hostiaddf3
<3 :
YES and in either case there’s a gentle/respectful way to talk to people!!! Just because you’re honest and direct doesn’t mean you’re allowed to communicate it any way you want
2026-07-09 12:35:42
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zoinksroobs
zoinksroobs :
okay but WE DONT KNOW that it wasn’t ON HIS PROFILE!!! the onlyyy context we have is the content of the voice memo of him speaking and like two sentences of a caption that the girls *friend* wrote, not even her!! we don’t know where or how they met. we don’t know what was on his profile (if there even was one). we don’t know what all they discussed on the first date. we know hardly ANYTHING!!!! yall have begun to reach far beyond the context we have and it’s extremely frustrating, because while you raise some valid points we don’t even know if all of them are applicable to this situation. you’re not only applying moral judgements to this man, but huge swaths of people who are undeserving.
2026-07-09 21:48:18
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eloiseisfine
Eloise :
Im not giving him brownie points, id still say no. But I do think it was smart for him to check intentions when the next date was at her house.
2026-07-09 15:00:30
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the_charmproject
Haley's House 🏠 :
Why does it sound like a warning
2026-07-09 19:14:48
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bi_physicist
Bi Physicist :
He was making a legal defense.
2026-07-09 23:04:49
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jokaur
Jo Kaur | San Francisco :
Thank you!!!!
2026-07-09 21:52:31
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piratebrynn
Brynn :
Yuppp thank you
2026-07-09 18:43:01
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giggitygiggitygoo10
1BallHG :
That’s…what dating is. Dating app culture has ruined dating. How do you know they didn’t meet organically?
2026-07-09 14:12:12
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the.fog29
Add your preferred name :
If you don’t know each other by the 3rd date that is a clear issue of communication.
2026-07-09 14:00:22
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nuranoooo
Nura :
Maybe he wanted to get to know her
2026-07-09 08:52:35
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maqhokisiawalingani
maqhokisi awalingani :
but "no" is also an option in this matter🤷
2026-07-09 16:56:22
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completephased
CompletePhased :
No that is kind of the point yall are still strangers. So yes it is appropriate to be direct about your intent.
2026-07-09 19:51:35
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