for avoidant and rocd girlies - our mind doesn’t work like this. i wish it was this easy!
2026-07-31 13:12:53
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Dj Smoke :
A better question is “The person they are today, would you be happy with that person in five years”
2026-07-09 21:42:56
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Maya Balaji :
I do know how I feel but I've been struggling to feel ready to act on it 🥹
2026-07-09 03:06:37
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✨Kathy✨🇲🇽💙💜🩷 :
It’s the “if nothing changed” l finally realized I was never going to change them and it was unfair of me to try
2026-07-08 21:54:51
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iji Naku :
Question at 1:22
2026-07-09 20:42:11
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Michaela Palečková :
he started trying but it’s not doing anything to me anymore.. i fear i already gave up.
2026-07-10 16:28:55
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Halle Quinne :
btw I watched your videos in secret until I finally left. thank you for these
2026-07-09 00:57:43
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Earth Soul 🌀 :
It’s so sad how for us women the amount of energy and time it consumes us to “understand” a men. We pay therapy sessions, journal, do shadow work, etc meanwhile they just sit there while we solve the emotional complexity of any relationship 🤡
2026-07-31 20:00:02
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Jelly Bean :
ive come to realize i should never have to ask a man when im getting a ring. some women get engaged months after meeting a man. its been over 5 years for me and im 26 so im like 🤨
2026-08-03 04:40:30
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emmi.renn :
One that did it for me was “if someone said you were becoming more like your partner, would you view that as a compliment or an insult?”
2026-07-10 18:10:55
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a n n a ⋆˚𓇼 。 :
the one that works best is, “Do you think he’s lucky to have you? or you’re lucky to have him?” if you’re constantly saying ‘he’s so lucky to have me’ then leave and find someone who you feel lucky to have found.
2026-07-27 03:24:02
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Caitlin :
Getting into my body is so critical. My brain can try to rationalize myself out of anything
2026-07-09 19:23:11
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whatsmarleymaking :
I liked this one video where a girl said you’ll leave the relationship when you’ve finally had enough. If you’re still in it & you know it’s not it, you will leave when you’ve finally had enough
2026-07-13 16:14:56
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Doctress :
Question at 1:22
2026-08-11 20:43:54
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Milo :
Immediate nausea and dread, you might as well tell me I’m going to prison cause that’s how trapped it made me feel
2026-07-19 11:19:48
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Jess Stancil | God Guided :
This was me. 9 year relationship, took me way too long to leave. What finally did it for me was realizing that ready is not a feeling but a decision. There was never going to be a good time & I was never going to feel ready. I just had to do it & the rest of me got on board & adjusted eventually
2026-07-10 19:36:56
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👩🏼🦰 Shachar levy :
I realised this when we were about to move in together, realised this was it. Asked myself I can live with this every day and realised I’d be miserable
2026-07-10 17:27:53
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alisenrose :
5 more years of not being considered the way I want to, no dates that are specific to what I want, and feeling like i’m missing a chemistry that should feel natural but feels forced. Ugh.
2026-07-10 19:49:57
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Lindsay Greer :
Oh the timing of this video! I just talked about this in therapy today 😭
2026-07-09 00:11:04
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andrianathepa :
This is me, but I’m STILL not ready to listen maybe when I hit the 7 year mark I’ll let you know what happened
2026-07-09 00:18:18
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Alexa :
Wow this is incredibly helpful
2026-07-10 03:37:26
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Mango Charade :
What if I felt nothing at all when you asked the question? Like if nothing came up in my head except question marks basically. No chest or gut feelings, just feeling like I don’t know.
2026-07-09 15:26:30
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K :
I’m 2 years in and questioning if I can even realistically bare another year with him
2026-07-10 17:35:22
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jade :
I would be relieved. For the fact, we are both young and growing together/as individuals. So I want us to change for the better and make something more meaningful throughout time :) I love this video
2026-07-09 16:02:32
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