@christopherseiter: If You Want An Avoidant To Crave You, DO THIS #anxiety #commitment #avoidant #attachmentstyle #avoidantex #dating #breakups #nocontact
I know mine thinks about me all the time, misses me tremendously and craves me (his words), but that doesn’t make him commit. I moved on with my life, dated someone knew (he found out), have tried everything that has been suggested and even though he comes back talking about a ‘future’ he continues to do the same.
2026-07-12 07:20:01
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LisaAnnePNW40 :
No contact is so hard
2026-07-12 06:30:56
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Rye_MoW :
I blocked. Peace is more important
2026-07-12 08:59:27
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Shania :
I blocked...idc
2026-07-11 23:04:31
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Shireen :
That’s fucked up
2026-07-11 17:44:40
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Kyle :
They come back and it repeats
2026-07-14 18:10:59
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g3orge808 :
What about if they are going travelling for like 6 months and have heaps of distractions??
2026-07-12 06:53:11
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GeorgiaSweetestPeach :
Just get to the point
2026-07-15 19:26:36
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E_Geeee :
My obsession triangle is slamming the door in your face. Simple.
2026-07-14 14:52:34
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Urban Explorer83 :
What happens when 2 people take the same advice!?
2026-07-12 21:46:36
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Queen of the hustle :
A how do you get to keep him without him running again
2026-07-14 07:42:02
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ميرة 🫧 :
it’s easier to block tbh
2026-07-17 00:35:29
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death_noodle :
honstly just leave it alone 😔
2026-07-14 04:34:45
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marymastersRealtor :
But what if he sent a sorta breakup text ?
2026-07-13 16:54:37
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2026-07-13 15:34:50
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G :
Wrong.
2026-07-12 18:37:41
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Fran<3 :
What if they blocked me on one platform bcs I wanted smth that belonged to me back 😭?
2026-07-11 20:35:48
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Piixxiie :
What you mean date someone else? If I’m in a relationship with an avoidant I first have to break up in order to date someone else or it’s cheating
2026-07-12 22:45:13
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neqty05 :
I followed your advice got getting an ex back maybe 10 years ago, it worked to a T, I would recommend to others, however I understand American “ dating “ culture is different to uk dating, but dating someone else would be a nail in the coffin for me, if he knew I was seeing any other men my value to him would drop to the floor.
2026-07-13 12:36:44
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shmeeker dinker :
Does the second one apply to fearful avoidants who dated and lived with you for 4 years at a young age like 17-21? I’ve seen people or certain areas say that dating others makes them stay away for good because they convince themselves you hate them or something
2026-07-13 05:55:30
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Karma S. :
Should you also remove them from socials like linkedin?
2026-07-12 20:45:26
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