@khandi_ray: You deserve to be properly loved and cared for. Don’t allow your parents or anybody to mistreat you. Learning to love yourself and teaching people how to treat you is the best thing you can do. Stay strong. I’m proud of you If you need help 🔗 in Bio to book a 1 on 1 #fypシ゚viral #khandiray #healingtiktok #narcissisticabuse #mommyissues
My parents bought us things. But everything came with a price and held over your head
2026-07-14 18:31:52
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Big Ole Momma :
I have anxiety 25/8
2026-08-28 00:11:12
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Glam Ma 💕 :
I’m healing rn from it all
2026-08-27 13:43:37
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TNmama920 :
Yeah….I got food and shelter…all sprinkled with a ton of PTSD!
2026-07-15 14:17:59
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karrieseyboldt :
I'm Gen X, I saved all my vacation and sick days to show up for every event for both my kids, cooked homemade meals, spent all my time I wasn't working to spent time with my kids.
2026-08-27 20:43:50
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shaoLao :
I felt responsible for being a responsibility 😔
2026-08-27 11:18:17
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Sherrell :
They talk about how they provided the bare minimum. But don’t wanna go to a nursing home. My thing is what’s wrong with a nursing home ? Don’t you have food, shelter, and clothes ? Amazing how they realize that none of that matters if you aren’t treated right, when they are in the position! lol
2026-07-15 00:24:57
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Jovani :
We were tolerated, not raised. The goal was clear: grow up and get out lol. Now the relationship is what it is. I didnt create it.
2026-07-26 20:22:36
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Tarik :
Dear,Black Parents
2026-07-14 23:32:24
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Torron brown jr :
act like they don’t remember how they treated you my mom is real good at that
2026-07-16 16:17:32
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Soldier Of Christ 🗡️🛡️ :
Yeah I cut my mom off for that. She thinks she deserves to be spoiled or pampered. For adding nothing to my life? you get no respect.
2026-07-14 11:10:18
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Monique Shay :
They never wanted to be a parent. I’ll always stand on this. You can easily tell when parents WANT and take full pride in being a parent.
2026-07-15 12:43:05
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rentmoneydue :
Everybody was home but nobody was present
2026-08-11 07:18:42
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alicealicia76 :
Demanding respect and love when none was given.
2026-07-14 14:39:41
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Cari Salmon :
They resented having us. At least that’s how I felt.
2026-07-15 14:45:02
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unethicalhoopsonly :
My mom used to stay in her room 24/7 and only came out for stuff like school, working, or making herself dinner and usually led to making us dinner(except for the times where she told us to “fend for ourselves”). Till this day she flexes me having to learn how to cook for me, my older and younger brother(they don’t and still can’t cook), AND HER😭. As if making your 8yr old learn how to cook by himself and beating me wit a belt if I messed something up was her greatest accomplishment as my mother(this went on until I was 13 and only stopped because we went HOMELESS🤦🏾)
2026-08-27 03:39:47
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flipondeck_ :
No contact with my mom. She was my first bully and hater
2026-07-15 21:04:25
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therealtoxictruthtalks :
Children don’t owe closeness to the people who taught them that love comes with fear. Respect is earned twice—once as a parent and again as an adult.
2026-07-14 16:40:51
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shereallyinherprime :
They don’t have accountability…
2026-07-24 12:21:23
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Kofi- :
“Don’t talk to me like I am your friend.” Grew up to this saying a lot. Im 21 now and they wanna be buddy buddy with me smh
2026-07-20 11:00:10
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Pain_77 :
Their mindset is always I’m older I’m right you’re young you’re wrong you don’t know nothing cause you’re a kid and they’re the adult they know everything. Sometimes kids probably know something you don’t as a parent and they can help you. They think you owe them respect and they think they don’t have to respect you just cause your young, when you mistreat a child it leaves a stain on the children parents have to be careful how they treat they’re children.
2026-07-31 08:05:11
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