In other words, cultivate your inner world, your circles, and community. Then everything mentioned here organically comes out. That’s how you actually become a cool girl 🤍
2026-07-14 08:35:48
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Victoria Lucy 🎡 :
I don’t go to the gym, but I take walks a lot and that includes using hills lol
2026-07-09 02:08:25
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ShellyRo :
The gym is a must for me and you’re right, guys do notice and admire it 💯
2026-07-09 14:57:06
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twentywho :
This is so toxic lol 👎🏻
2026-07-09 02:23:53
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Blaire :
Is it bad that I told the guy I’m seeing that I wasn’t going to keep investing my time and energy and gas in my car to visit him without knowing where I stand and that he either knows now if he wants me to be his girlfriend since it’s been almost 2.5 months. I told him that and he said he wasn’t aware how important the label is to me and he has no problem claiming me as his girlfriend. I still feel weird about it.
2026-07-09 03:07:36
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SuamaG1NA17 :
1. Workout ✅ 2. Lighten up✅ (sometimes) 😂 depends. 3. Better communicator (working on it) but I’m always myself. 😍
2026-07-11 00:31:04
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LOVBOLT :
The best relationships usually start with the right mindset.
2026-07-09 11:04:25
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moonlover031 :
Is he reciprocating ?!?!
2026-07-10 03:09:44
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MAMI MAN :
Ugh
2026-07-09 05:03:32
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cassyess3 :
I want to strike up a conversation with a guy that I’m attracted to when we’re in the same place IRL but I lose nerve when I’m attracted to them, it’s like my default is coy. But I’m really good at striking conversation with literally everyone else. Why? Fear of rejection? How do I get over that?
2026-07-09 02:30:22
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Wamalamadingdong :
I’m disciplined in so many things in my life, I’m not prioritizing the gym as one of them. We are both physically fit but aren’t gym people anymore.
2026-07-09 13:58:08
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MaPippin :
I agree 💯 Benny is always right 🙏🤗
2026-07-10 02:50:17
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Pares :
Benny. I love it when my RBF runs my life🙄 Otherwise I’m so light, funny, flirty, charming and a tease to the right man. I’ll keep on getting free things then!
2026-07-11 20:28:25
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Shelly Marler :
Learned this late in life but so true! 💯💯
2026-07-09 13:13:41
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steph :
cant live my life without workout its pretty much a given these days for most, like healthy eating - key is balance including lightheartedness.
2026-07-09 09:30:39
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Sweet D :
I’m doing it and it’s working
2026-07-10 02:46:21
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vixin :
2026-07-09 03:26:32
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Wanderlust :
Back on my feed...
2026-07-09 02:28:03
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user5602940246836 :
Great tips!
2026-07-09 13:49:34
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Hauve Niana Butinas :
I really love this
2026-07-10 21:04:17
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bearingtonsmom :
All of these are great also ladies once you get into that discipline and routine YOU will refuse to be with someone who doesn’t have it themself
2026-07-09 02:11:33
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Ashley Farmer Wallace :
This is true!!!👏 Discipline !!!!💪💪
2026-07-09 05:15:00
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🚩Redflags”R”Us🚩 :
😂😂
2026-07-09 02:45:42
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