@thechristianitgirl: this is not about unforgiveness, this is about the effects of other people’s sin and psychological trauma.

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mindyabidnez0
mindyabidnez :
what dies in you after betrayal is not “hope” or “romantic optimism.” It’s innocence. It’s the version of you who loved without calculation, without fear, without the awareness that someone you let all the way in could devastate you.That’s why cheating feels like a death.Not because the relationship ended but because you ended. A version of you ended. And the grief that follows is not just heartbreak. It’s identity grief. It’s relational grief. It’s spiritual grief. It’s the grief of losing the self you were before you learned what betrayal feels like. But something else was born: discernment, self-protection, emotional intelligence, and a deeper understanding of what love actually requires.
2026-07-09 09:21:11
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chyste_
Chyanne B :
So unfortunate that people don’t understand the damage betrayal does.
2026-07-09 12:38:24
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jeremycolyy
jay :
cheating should be illegal
2026-07-09 16:48:16
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courtdefrank
Courtney 💗 :
People don’t realize how life altering being cheated on really is. It truly changes you forever. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
2026-07-09 23:36:04
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christiie__
Christiie__ :
So many of us are walking around broken lost and numb 🥺
2026-07-09 21:51:29
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deau.na17
deau.na17 :
this is the feeling I haven’t been able to explain for weeks now.
2026-07-09 03:32:55
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user802290773
juanita :
Тherаpist here. It’s a chіldhood wоund. Аt somе pоіnt іn yоur childhood уou fеlt emоtionally аbandoned ѕo when you didn’t recеіvе. You have to heal thе rоot сause оf it іnternally by rewіring yоur core beliefs. Нighlу recоmmend readіng Healing Iѕn’t Prettу by Мira Наrtѕоn, it's а wоndеrful bоok.
2026-07-09 14:26:40
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boris_pash
Boris Pash :
yup, just numb
2026-07-09 06:10:57
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faithjgo
fefe :
getting cheated on feels like turning into a zombie and nothings ever the same anymore, just wondering through life
2026-07-10 06:07:27
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gabw_jesuscheerleader
Gab🍄 :
yes I've disassociated
2026-07-09 10:23:25
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isabellamariecone
Isabella | ✞ :
“For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.” Romans 8 : 18 🤍
2026-07-09 15:46:13
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ninjanoturtles
peachieg :
I haven’t been the same since 😭
2026-07-10 00:13:42
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preciouszbr
Nova North :
it was 12 years ago for me. never had another relationship. I finally feel like im finding myself again.
2026-07-10 22:38:34
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itsrodhe
itsrodhe :
And you know what? Thats valid.
2026-07-09 03:47:54
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thebookavenue
Lari 🍄🇧🇷 :
Me was while doing pregnancy alone. Better alone now !
2026-07-10 22:39:41
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taylorfry17
Taylor fry :
Deliverance and prayer heals you ❤️I pray God leads you to that path
2026-07-10 12:04:03
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luciadocarmoo
Lu & Zu 🦋 :
Nothing explained it better than this
2026-07-10 22:50:49
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batnan2
user9836020438560 :
Sorry this happened to you!
2026-07-10 14:52:23
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kkimberlyscott
Kimberly Scott :
why does no one talk about this
2026-07-10 04:31:55
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heyitstriplea
AAA🌸 :
I have a theory that we all died in 2022 because me too
2026-07-09 18:33:40
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realisation10
Reality :
People don’t get it
2026-07-10 09:07:31
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b0luwatifee
Bólúwatifẹ́ :
I have never felt so seen, to the point where I am brought to tears. My soul has been crushed since 2024 to the point of no self recognition. My biggest dream is peace of mind, genuine happiness and pure joy.
2026-07-09 04:36:58
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scentedwithsusan
ScentswithSusan💜 :
The way I felt this to my CORE! 😭
2026-07-09 04:36:54
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aliceisboreddd
aliceisboreddd :
It’s been 4 years later for me as well. I am married now yet I STILL feel the pain. Being cheated on changes a person. I’ll never be the same again.
2026-07-10 02:23:44
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tashthevisionary00
Tash_thevisionary ✨ :
It sounds like you’re waiting for punishment for those that wronged you. It comes. But the key is not to watch for it or hold your breath for it. The break you get is releasing yourself from the mental shackles of expectations. Feel and process your grief but let it pass. Create a village of support and choose to be happy. Don’t wait for it.
2026-07-09 18:49:25
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