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Thursday 09 July 2026 03:21:13 GMT
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mindyabidnez :
what dies in you after betrayal is not “hope” or “romantic optimism.” It’s innocence. It’s the version of you who loved without calculation, without fear, without the awareness that someone you let all the way in could devastate you.That’s why cheating feels like a death.Not because the relationship ended but because you ended. A version of you ended. And the grief that follows is not just heartbreak. It’s identity grief. It’s relational grief. It’s spiritual grief. It’s the grief of losing the self you were before you learned what betrayal feels like. But something else was born: discernment, self-protection, emotional intelligence, and a deeper understanding of what love actually requires.
2026-07-09 09:21:11
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jay :
cheating should be illegal
2026-07-09 16:48:16
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Chyanne B :
So unfortunate that people don’t understand the damage betrayal does.
2026-07-09 12:38:24
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Courtney 💗 :
People don’t realize how life altering being cheated on really is. It truly changes you forever. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
2026-07-09 23:36:04
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Boris Pash :
yup, just numb
2026-07-09 06:10:57
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deau.na17 :
this is the feeling I haven’t been able to explain for weeks now.
2026-07-09 03:32:55
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Christiie__ :
So many of us are walking around broken lost and numb 🥺
2026-07-09 21:51:29
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Gab🍄 :
yes I've disassociated
2026-07-09 10:23:25
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fefe :
getting cheated on feels like turning into a zombie and nothings ever the same anymore, just wondering through life
2026-07-10 06:07:27
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juanita :
Тherаpist here. It’s a chіldhood wоund. Аt somе pоіnt іn yоur childhood уou fеlt emоtionally аbandoned ѕo when you didn’t recеіvе. You have to heal thе rоot сause оf it іnternally by rewіring yоur core beliefs. Нighlу recоmmend readіng Healing Iѕn’t Prettу by Мira Наrtѕоn, it's а wоndеrful bоok.
2026-07-09 14:26:40
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peachieg :
I haven’t been the same since 😭
2026-07-10 00:13:42
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troyleenewgent :
same and I don't think Ill ever be the person I once was it changes something in you an takes enjoyment of anything away
2026-07-10 17:38:29
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Sessy :
Lamentations is a book in the Bible. so many of the psalms is David crying out. There are SO many people in the Bible and on earth who get this. And most of all Jesus gets this. I’ve been there too sister, and in those moments I just tell God that he has to pull me out - I give Him ALL my grief, I “let him have it” and then I give Him permission to pull my out how He wants at His pace and He always does. And I’m sure you do, but you need friends who come alongside you and bind and rebuke the enemies attempts to tear you down. I’m praying for peace, restoration, and joy for you 💕 it WILL get better
2026-07-09 08:34:30
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itsrodhe :
And you know what? Thats valid.
2026-07-09 03:47:54
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M A R I A 🎀 :
I refuse to continue to lose more parts of myself and grieve them … only God can heal us… 🙏
2026-07-10 17:29:49
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monsterman :
I wouldn't say dead but I know what your feeling
2026-07-10 17:28:43
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karla.g.08 :
Same. Never the same
2026-07-10 17:33:22
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k.angellaaaa :
Actually think mine died last year
2026-07-10 17:38:02
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Isabella | ✞ :
“For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.” Romans 8 : 18 🤍
2026-07-09 15:46:13
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Bólúwatifẹ́ :
I have never felt so seen, to the point where I am brought to tears. My soul has been crushed since 2024 to the point of no self recognition. My biggest dream is peace of mind, genuine happiness and pure joy.
2026-07-09 04:36:58
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Reality :
People don’t get it
2026-07-10 09:07:31
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ScentswithSusan💜 :
The way I felt this to my CORE! 😭
2026-07-09 04:36:54
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AAA🌸 :
I have a theory that we all died in 2022 because me too
2026-07-09 18:33:40
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aliceisboreddd :
It’s been 4 years later for me as well. I am married now yet I STILL feel the pain. Being cheated on changes a person. I’ll never be the same again.
2026-07-10 02:23:44
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Tash_thevisionary ✨ :
It sounds like you’re waiting for punishment for those that wronged you. It comes. But the key is not to watch for it or hold your breath for it. The break you get is releasing yourself from the mental shackles of expectations. Feel and process your grief but let it pass. Create a village of support and choose to be happy. Don’t wait for it.
2026-07-09 18:49:25
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