@shetalksalot7: It took a lot to get over the feeling of being assaulted like that. I was so used to making excuses for them just to stay in relationship with them until I literally couldn’t anymore. I had no option because they were the ones discarding me and so I took that as my opportunity to go no contact. I can’t describe how ugly, unwanted and dirty I felt in that moment but I guess that’s what I get for putting it off for that long. We are back in contact but it’s limited and I still will never sleep at home even if I visit and stay late I know better than to think they want me around. So don’t wait to be discarded, better to leave on your own terms. #fyp #nocontact #eldestdaughter #foryou #trauma
I think as eldest daughters we focus so much on the mother wound, but fathers were enablers too. and most of us have father wounds too.
2026-08-26 09:19:59
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Miss Dee Meanor :
Intent doesn't erase impact! They still hurt you even when they didn't mean to say what they said.
2026-08-13 19:22:21
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Miss Tee :
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’m no contact with my mom and very limited contact with my dad.
2026-07-09 12:10:56
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not an angel🪽 :
Every time I watch one of your videos all I can say is, damn!
2026-07-09 09:41:49
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Dinah Masanda :
I'm limited contact with my mom but hoping to go no contact soon. With my whole family actually. Because I spoke up, I cried out, I even went to relatives to be safe or to be able to focus on school. Everybody failed me. I want to focus on forgiving them, and staying far away from people that don't protect children, because one day, it will be my daughter or son that needs protection and they will fail her.
Hugs to all the girlies going through this❤️
2026-07-25 06:54:52
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Essie Thuo :
We’re healing together babygirl🫂. Keep posting, you’re not alone in this. Thank you for sharing this part of your life journey with us🫶🏽
2026-07-10 11:24:16
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shishege :
As a mum of girls,thanks for being candid so we too can know how to do better as mums.Hugs n Hugs
2026-07-09 11:51:45
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Kash Essentials :
Your face is so pretty and moisturized🥰, please share your routine if you don't mind😌
2026-07-12 18:43:32
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Hope Stati :
girl i know what u mean. I am finally healing.
2026-07-09 13:11:06
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The Cleaning Lady 🧽🫧 🧹 :
stories like this can be healing when shared in such safe spaces
2026-07-10 20:26:49
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Cluck Cluck :
how long were you no contact?
2026-07-09 10:31:34
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T :
it is not dumb. it is inspiring and empowering.
2026-07-10 20:27:56
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Itsmeanyango :
I've always said there are parents somewhere in the world praying for a child like me but they got who they got, and I'm praying for parents like them but I got who I got. Anyway, at least I can afford therapy.
2026-08-10 18:59:11
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if not now,,,,, when? :
we heal ourselves we heal the world 👌
2026-07-10 13:29:06
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essy :
hugs
2026-07-09 11:59:37
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Thesloath :
I understand
2026-07-09 12:36:38
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Rachel • Online Fitness Coach :
Thanks for sharing. 💗
2026-07-09 12:07:50
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🤍𝓅𝒽𝓎𝓁 :
Oh baby 🥹
2026-07-09 10:03:37
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BrendahWarigia_hair :
😭😭Hugs
2026-07-09 10:00:23
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Delvine Yegon :
This is relatable.🥺 sending hugs .
2026-07-09 20:58:33
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Usualsuspect356 :
Same
2026-07-09 16:36:42
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maidenloved :
PTSD 💔
2026-07-09 17:41:41
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Imani :
Its one year since I cut off contact with them and I don't regret it am at peace with the fact they are more better strangers
2026-07-09 19:33:18
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Shee_ Diva :
hugs
2026-07-12 20:55:55
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Linvi Koech :
find peace in Jesus
2026-08-13 16:17:24
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