@shetalksalot7: It took a lot to get over the feeling of being assaulted like that. I was so used to making excuses for them just to stay in relationship with them until I literally couldn’t anymore. I had no option because they were the ones discarding me and so I took that as my opportunity to go no contact. I can’t describe how ugly, unwanted and dirty I felt in that moment but I guess that’s what I get for putting it off for that long. We are back in contact but it’s limited and I still will never sleep at home even if I visit and stay late I know better than to think they want me around. So don’t wait to be discarded, better to leave on your own terms. #fyp #nocontact #eldestdaughter #foryou #trauma

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ascendbookstore
B00kie :
I think as eldest daughters we focus so much on the mother wound, but fathers were enablers too. and most of us have father wounds too.
2026-08-26 09:19:59
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missdeemeanor
Miss Dee Meanor :
Intent doesn't erase impact! They still hurt you even when they didn't mean to say what they said.
2026-08-13 19:22:21
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t2025_6
Miss Tee :
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’m no contact with my mom and very limited contact with my dad.
2026-07-09 12:10:56
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anjeeinkheart
not an angel🪽 :
Every time I watch one of your videos all I can say is, damn!
2026-07-09 09:41:49
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msmasanda
Dinah Masanda :
I'm limited contact with my mom but hoping to go no contact soon. With my whole family actually. Because I spoke up, I cried out, I even went to relatives to be safe or to be able to focus on school. Everybody failed me. I want to focus on forgiving them, and staying far away from people that don't protect children, because one day, it will be my daughter or son that needs protection and they will fail her. Hugs to all the girlies going through this❤️
2026-07-25 06:54:52
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essie.thuo
Essie Thuo :
We’re healing together babygirl🫂. Keep posting, you’re not alone in this. Thank you for sharing this part of your life journey with us🫶🏽
2026-07-10 11:24:16
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shishege81
shishege :
As a mum of girls,thanks for being candid so we too can know how to do better as mums.Hugs n Hugs
2026-07-09 11:51:45
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kashessentials
Kash Essentials :
Your face is so pretty and moisturized🥰, please share your routine if you don't mind😌
2026-07-12 18:43:32
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hopestati
Hope Stati :
girl i know what u mean. I am finally healing.
2026-07-09 13:11:06
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cleanwithjoycegichinga
The Cleaning Lady 🧽🫧 🧹 :
stories like this can be healing when shared in such safe spaces
2026-07-10 20:26:49
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clakk.clakk
Cluck Cluck :
how long were you no contact?
2026-07-09 10:31:34
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t70473
T :
it is not dumb. it is inspiring and empowering.
2026-07-10 20:27:56
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anyangoimnida
Itsmeanyango :
I've always said there are parents somewhere in the world praying for a child like me but they got who they got, and I'm praying for parents like them but I got who I got. Anyway, at least I can afford therapy.
2026-08-10 18:59:11
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terry54099
if not now,,,,, when? :
we heal ourselves we heal the world 👌
2026-07-10 13:29:06
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essy50427
essy :
hugs
2026-07-09 11:59:37
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thesloath1
Thesloath :
I understand
2026-07-09 12:36:38
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rachelwamwere
Rachel • Online Fitness Coach :
Thanks for sharing. 💗
2026-07-09 12:07:50
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phyl551
🤍𝓅𝒽𝓎𝓁 :
Oh baby 🥹
2026-07-09 10:03:37
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brendahwarigia_hair
BrendahWarigia_hair :
😭😭Hugs
2026-07-09 10:00:23
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delvineyegon
Delvine Yegon :
This is relatable.🥺 sending hugs .
2026-07-09 20:58:33
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melchizedek1442
Usualsuspect356 :
Same
2026-07-09 16:36:42
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maidenloved
maidenloved :
PTSD 💔
2026-07-09 17:41:41
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hunnybunny_62
Imani :
Its one year since I cut off contact with them and I don't regret it am at peace with the fact they are more better strangers
2026-07-09 19:33:18
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shee_.diva
Shee_ Diva :
hugs
2026-07-12 20:55:55
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linvi_chemutai
Linvi Koech :
find peace in Jesus
2026-08-13 16:17:24
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