@brains.secret: According to psychology, most shy people were actually the most expressive children and since they were constantly judged and criticised they created shyness as a defence mechanism #brain #mind #mindset #psychology #relatable
And I remember the exact age my whole perception shifted too. Went from a very confident, self assured kid to someone who could barely speak around people
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ArtzyErinzy :
Now I have social anxiety 💔
2026-07-09 21:54:47
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Goku_the_cat :
they always called me weird so I learned to shut up and be alone 😕
2026-07-09 13:26:01
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My personal diary :
mannn I used to be so confident
2026-07-10 18:03:11
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𓁿⋆☆⋆♱⋆*☽ :
this makes sense, how do i stop
2026-07-10 15:29:44
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️ ️ :
Got judged and criticised so much I lost all my spark. I’m working on getting it back now. no more shyness, no more people pleasing, no more making myself small to make others feel more comfortable 😤
2026-07-09 18:36:31
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Bri :
For thе fіrst tіme in my life, І looked at my chіldhood with сompaѕsion instеad of shаme. Thаt’ѕ whаt The Child І Nеver Got to Be by Dax Rоwan gаve me.
2026-07-11 13:40:10
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Iris Violetta :
I still remember that time where 9 or 10 yo me was judged and criticized..I was playing with my cousins who had the same age as me..they judged me and asked me to do the chores and learned to cook like adults but they let my cousins play..it was bcs I have a bigger size than my same age cousins, they told me to stop playing and help them bcs they said "you are a grown up"...having a bigger size doesn't mean I'm mentally mature adult lmao..tbh Idc about learning something new at young age but the way they said it feels like I don't have freewill to play like a kid when I was a kid
2026-07-12 02:04:39
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Mire🎀 :
Silent repost
2026-07-09 17:22:02
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🧸★𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒊𝒆★🧸 :
no but I remember being such an extrovert and my parents would always tell me to be quiet and to shut up
2026-07-10 07:48:19
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B4ll3r!n4 :
This is probably also why shy people also tend to be expressive around people they feel comfortable/safe with.
2026-07-12 02:04:23
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Cecilia 📸✨ :
Whelp lol 👌
2026-07-12 02:12:37
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sua :
middle Child Right ? 😭 (btw moots?)
2026-07-11 21:23:08
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Rami_. :
and still no one understands me
2026-07-11 23:56:16
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L Avin :
mine is lack of money😂
2026-07-11 15:58:02
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KenanOW :
This perfectly describes me
2026-07-10 05:17:43
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cailin ⋆˚꩜。 :
i was super social and talkative as a kid, a lot of ppl told me i was annoying or talked too much
2026-07-10 14:33:25
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✨️𝓡𝓸𝔁𝔂 𝓜𝓸𝓷𝓸𝔁𝓲𝓭𝓮✨️ :
literally me. all shy, introverted, and awkward
2026-07-11 20:29:26
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itsmehere :
I was such an expressive child but I was bullied growing up 🥲
2026-07-09 22:47:35
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GracieGreenway :
Was called and treated like I was annoying and weird and everyone wondered why I got quiet. I only reveal my real self to people I trust.
2026-07-09 18:51:03
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