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neuwilette :
Umm. They treated me wrong, I decided to cut them off and avoid them. And I’m the one who’s lacking of maturity?
2026-07-10 08:21:05
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Ame :
it can be worst when they manipulate you and makes u think u're the one who caused the problem. and i got that kind of experience
2026-07-17 06:37:21
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Supremo :
Psychology student here. 😊 I just want to add a little context because this is a common misconception on social media. This can happen, but psychology doesn’t support making absolute conclusions like “if someone avoids you, it’s because they have a guilty conscience.” Human behavior is much more complex than that. A person may avoid someone because of guilt, but they may also be experiencing shame, fear of confrontation, an avoidant coping style, poor emotional regulation, unresolved trauma, or simply not knowing how to handle conflict. Likewise, not apologizing doesn’t automatically mean someone is immature or lacks accountability—there are many psychological and situational factors that can influence that behavior. In psychology, we also try to avoid what’s called the fundamental attribution error—the tendency to explain someone’s behavior based only on their personality or character while ignoring the situation they’re in. So instead of saying, “According to psychology, this is why they avoid you,” a more accurate statement would be: “This is one possible explanation, but there are many others.” Psychology helps us understand human behavior—not oversimplify it. That’s why it’s important to be careful with posts that start with “According to psychology…” without citing evidence and research
2026-07-24 00:53:22
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Michael Morman :
Sometimes you are just done with the bickering and disrespect. Not a lack of maturity, accountability, or guilt. When someone becomes your number 1 source of stress all you can do it walk away to protect your peace
2026-07-10 10:14:39
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SemutTawar 🐜 :
Then how about.. they were wrong but the act like nothing
2026-07-16 07:16:22
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Girlalooo93 :
Not 100% accurate.
2026-07-10 10:51:30
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Evixt💤 :
how do i even force myself out of this
2026-07-19 21:23:15
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mury :
if youre reading this, no i dont think i did anything wrong, i didnt reply to ur message because you left me open for so long i overthinked the whole relationship and moved on, that was last year's... you came back again to ask whats wrong but everything felt wrong, i tried everything i could to get the old you back but you said everything's fine but i know something wasn't. after months, I made my own conclusion and thought were done and youre just too afraid to say it. i wasnt overreacting, i did this for my own good, i cannot continue like this, you left me open without a clear answer for so long i ended up making my own ending. i dont feel like replying to you because the problem was you, and i want you to think of every possibilities why i felt like it.
2026-07-19 09:39:18
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sophie3 :
thanks for letting me know
2026-07-17 09:05:12
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anin :
Now I'm even more guilty.
2026-07-19 21:38:33
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ellia hadi :
this is exactly happening to me right now.what a coincidence.
2026-07-16 10:46:34
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ale :
they didn't remove themselves from my life, it's me who left them. i just can't deal with those things staying along with me
2026-07-19 10:50:58
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mango<3 𖣂 :
I avoid people bc I’m drained not bc I feel guilty tho 😭 lately I feel like I’ve been getting treated like a piece of gum that’s been spit out and I don’t Think the people in my life quite understands what they are doing and I don’t have the energy to explain to anyone about what they are doing they are grown they should know what they are doing or the things they say it makes me not want to be around anybody I just want to be left alone like does this make me a bad person I’ve been dealing with everybody else’s bs for so long I haven’t even been able to take care of myself properly
2026-07-14 09:52:13
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Tracey ❌️ :
NOT always the case. When people treat me wrong and I know it, I choose to walk the other way. I choose to deflect chaos and negative lying backstabbing energy. I choose myself.
2026-07-10 17:34:31
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Yumi🗝️𖦹°‧⊹ ࣪𓂁﹏⊹ :
How hard is it to apologize???
2026-07-16 21:29:13
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Kaiii۶۟ৎ :
They didn't want to pursue me in the first place. ofc I would avoid them.
2026-07-17 11:18:22
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𝚅 :
"they" avoid you, not "you" avoiding them
2026-07-18 03:41:08
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tickaticka :
How about I got sick of putting up with the dysfunction in the relationship and walked away???
2026-07-11 01:40:07
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Pepperpod :
I’m avoiding 3 people that did me so wrong . I pray that they realize and repent . I forgive but choose to stay away from them.
2026-07-11 02:44:17
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Jan Whaley :
My husband of fifty years died, my lung cancer came back and my son stopped talking to me because I don't like trump. It's so quiet. 😥
2026-07-11 16:21:35
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✨😍meeks💫🥀✨ :
not at all circumstance, like im the one avoiding people who did me wrong and disrespected me just to preserve my own peace of mind.
2026-07-11 01:53:29
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ruthierohrbough :
when you break a trust that is the hardest and most impossible thing to get back
2026-07-09 19:42:08
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Krista Brach :
Nope, I walked away to save my peace after they did me dirty.
2026-07-10 14:50:06
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Paula Cardone495 :
You can remove someone from your life because they ared
2026-07-10 02:38:41
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