🌺 Stop Giving Them Little Reassurance Hits No random “just checking on you” texts. No liking old posts. No finding tiny excuses to pop back up. Every time you do that, you’re basically reminding them that you’re still there. When that reassurance disappears, that’s when their brain starts going… wait, are they actually done with me? Did they move on? Is there someone else? And that’s when the silence starts getting LOUD. 🌺 Use Manifestation / Visualization To Speed Things Up Use the Bowcat Method before bed for three nights. It’s a visualization technique specifically for breakups, no contact, and even situationships. It helps manifest them back into your life with the quickness. This is where the results get crazy. Instead of you being the one obsessing over them, it completely flips everything so it’s the other way around. This is usually when they start reaching out again, overthinking you, dreaming about you, reliving old memories, and wanting another chance. And the results you guys have been getting from this have been so amazing. 👀 You guys have been seeing results within just a few days. If you don’t know how to do it yet, it’s up at the top of my profile. 🌺 Stop Posting Like They’re Your Only Viewer You know those super specific quotes, songs, thirst traps, and “I’m so over it” posts that are clearly meant for one person? Yeah… stop. The harder you are to read, the more they start wondering. Do you miss them? Are you done? Did someone else get your attention? That uncertainty is what gets them checking your page harder and overthinking every little thing. 🌺 Don’t Fold Over One Tiny Breadcrumb One text. One story view. One random like. That is NOT your sign to immediately give them full access again. If bare minimum attention gets you right back where they want you, why would they do more? Let them actually put in effort. Let them reach out properly. Let them show you they want access to you again. 🌺 Stop Clocking Their Every Move Checking their page 20 times a day, watching who they follow, stalking reposts, viewing stories the second they post… girl, all of your attention is still on them. When you suddenly stop, the whole dynamic changes. That’s when they start wondering what you’re doing, why you’re not checking anymore, and whether your attention has gone somewhere else. Sometimes the biggest shift happens when they can no longer feel you waiting in the exact same place. #nocontact #breakupadvice #specificperson #relationshiptips - @subliminalsamira