@hey.shainamarie: #relationshipgoals #relationshipadvice

Shaina Richardson | Hypnotist
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zoeyrene_
Z :
Healing an anxious attachment style is one of the hardest yet most liberating things someone can do ✨
2026-08-04 18:24:23
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rianaschultz
Riana :
Dating someone who's a slower texter. Sometimes takes a day to get back to me. I have to yell at the voice in my head to stop spiraling lol.
2026-08-11 20:40:31
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xoxo_allieelizabeth
xoxo_allieelizabeth :
What if he doesn’t text you for days, but says he is interested and has feelings?
2026-07-10 19:15:12
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d367643
D. :
That's correct, when the wave comes just try to see it from a different angle, your anxious attachment will bring a lot of bad ideas like what is he doing and it takes him one minute to reply why he didn't reply yet and what if this and what if that! Just try your best to shift that thinking to I am ok , maybe he is busy i should not act on assumptions and even if he is doing something bad it's his loss i will know eventually , you MUST feel that it's not your loss if he is doing something you dont like because when you believe that you will stop panicking over every hour he is not around you
2026-07-10 09:10:18
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paprika_chilli
Paprika’s World :
What tools you’re referring to. When I am trying to train myself I feel like I’m betraying myself and who I am while I’m trying to detach when I actually care so much
2026-08-14 13:24:19
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alice_boxy
Alice :
Me and my partner have just split up over my issues relating to this and my anxious attachment style, I just don’t know how to control my mind and stop these triggers so I don’t push him away further
2026-07-13 16:18:40
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bella_dayyani
Bella dayyani :
But how about being in a relationship but he’s a dry texter but we are good in FaceTime dates but still im not satisfied
2026-08-19 14:48:16
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user47052a
User47052a :
It’s hard lol
2026-08-12 14:55:31
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kma.com27
🐰 :
I was in this situation. I said all these things to myself you mention, but the my nervous system was so much in fight or flight mode that I was getting emotional and also physically exhausted. I decided that I have to feel rest again and also heal first so I had to break contact with him to end the spiral. Now I am acknowledging what happend and at which parts my anxiety activated the most. Do you have tips for this maybe. I am also in such grief that I had to break contact with this secure and nice guy, but he still holds the door open to text him back when I feel better, but I also have stuggles thinking about when do I really feel healed again to text him back again? How will I know and when is it the right time?
2026-08-29 10:20:52
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jessbushmusic
Jess Bush :
I’ve been seriously love bombed, twice. Those two guys were the ones who texted me the most. I later realized it wasn’t genuine. They both cut and run after three months.
2026-08-29 19:13:19
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sevenfrogs
sevenfrogs :
What if he actually just doesn’t want to text you 😂 it isn’t always about us managing our anxiety. Sometimes your spidey senses just know something isn’t right
2026-09-03 22:35:22
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piscesdreamergirl
Kenz33 :
I think I’m talking to a very level headed man, and I have been taking it slower and taking 6-7 hours to respond. He handles it just fine :)
2026-07-10 02:08:28
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ivermeulen123
Iv95 :
I love your insights so much!!
2026-07-10 07:24:17
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ravenlover8
RavenLover🐦‍⬛🖤 :
I think some of us struggle in the beginning stage of texting, even before meeting. What should the pace be and should we wait for him to text first if we haven’t met or been on a few dates. I would assume both people are talking to other people as well.
2026-07-25 02:23:19
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t.d.555
T :
Hmm I’m always the one to reach out first. Do I stop and see if I hear from him or continue 😆 I wonder sometimes if he’s actually even into me or if he is just polite continuing things. We live a few hours from each other and only meet up every 2-3 weeks for a weekend together. He always books and pays accomodation, and treats me to dinners/drinks etc. I feel a bit of distance between us recently.
2026-07-16 04:46:17
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silcs06
silcs06 :
I love this!!!!!
2026-07-25 14:02:09
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garrett23321
Garrett2332 :
I need this!
2026-07-10 23:56:03
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jen.t.tran
Jen T. :
I like this. Thank you. 😊
2026-07-10 06:03:20
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bitttyyyywittyyyy
BW :
All I hear is we can change and become anyone we want with practice and effort 🥰
2026-09-09 01:26:25
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chrisiszzz
who.is.chris :
I don’t understand why should we detach and just consider this acceptable. I just started dating you and I am excited to talk to you and get to know you why don’t you feel the same way. All I know is that if you do this now that you are excited to pursue me so no one else pops in and catches my attention, what are you going to do when we are dating go MIA for days?
2026-07-16 14:22:50
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jennymcgreen
JennyMcGreen :
You need a roster 🤭🤭🤭 you’ll be texting someone at any given time 😛😛😛😛
2026-07-21 16:47:58
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kategetty0
Kate :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-08-13 16:45:50
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