Hmm I’m always the one to reach out first. Do I stop and see if I hear from him or continue 😆 I wonder sometimes if he’s actually even into me or if he is just polite continuing things. We live a few hours from each other and only meet up every 2-3 weeks for a weekend together. He always books and pays accomodation, and treats me to dinners/drinks etc. I feel a bit of distance between us recently.
2026-07-16 04:46:17
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xoxo_allieelizabeth :
What if he doesn’t text you for days, but says he is interested and has feelings?
2026-07-10 19:15:12
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Alice :
Me and my partner have just split up over my issues relating to this and my anxious attachment style, I just don’t know how to control my mind and stop these triggers so I don’t push him away further
2026-07-13 16:18:40
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D. :
That's correct, when the wave comes just try to see it from a different angle, your anxious attachment will bring a lot of bad ideas like what is he doing and it takes him one minute to reply why he didn't reply yet and what if this and what if that! Just try your best to shift that thinking to I am ok , maybe he is busy i should not act on assumptions and even if he is doing something bad it's his loss i will know eventually , you MUST feel that it's not your loss if he is doing something you dont like because when you believe that you will stop panicking over every hour he is not around you
2026-07-10 09:10:18
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Kenz33 :
I think I’m talking to a very level headed man, and I have been taking it slower and taking 6-7 hours to respond. He handles it just fine :)
2026-07-10 02:08:28
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Iv95 :
I love your insights so much!!
2026-07-10 07:24:17
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Jen T. :
I like this. Thank you. 😊
2026-07-10 06:03:20
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Garrett2332 :
I need this!
2026-07-10 23:56:03
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