People want clear direct communication until they get clear direct communication
2026-07-10 19:40:46
253
not_Penguin124 :
This is such an insane take. Nowhere in the memo did he ask for permanent, irrevocable, written, future consent. All he did was clearly identify his own intentions and ask if her intentions lined up with his. And if they did not, then he just didn’t want to continue seeing her. There was nothing unreasonable or malicious about what he said.
2026-07-10 20:53:58
260
PoetryByKita :
the comments not understanding this video is concerning.
2026-07-10 04:44:45
1201
Lilbean :
He basically said if we can’t do the dirty we can’t go on more dates that’s WIIIIIILD
2026-07-10 16:34:25
127
LIQUID :
Maybe I misunderstood, but I took it as "if you're open to it, I'm down to come over. If it's a definite no, I don't wanna"
2026-07-10 05:44:34
319
idkbruh1! :
No that’s him building his legal defense
2026-07-10 17:23:04
125
sendmecoolstuff :
"dont ask cause it can change" is a wild take in 2026.
2026-07-10 19:22:03
47
wheat :
It isn’t pre-ordering consent. He’s stating what his intentions are?? Have we really lost the plot this much?😭 like would you rather somebody to state their intentions with you or not? Every healthy relationship I’ve witnessed in my life has said how important it is to not only set boundaries but to talk about what intentions you have with either other/ what type of relationship you would like to have.
2026-07-11 02:02:32
33
Jayjay :
The comments are weird. You’re right.
2026-07-10 22:09:53
155
Sunkissed :
ngl pre ordering is crazy
2026-07-09 23:13:06
728
bumblebeemagic2.0 :
He just wants to protect himself
2026-07-10 15:47:30
51
ᛑᛗᛛTiny Nikto/Königᛑᛗᛛ :
I didnt hear the audio but the way everyone is talking about it it sounds like its a scenario where it was basically saying "if youre open to this. if not then I wont".
2026-07-10 14:55:57
22
jontaviousdaquanmarquis :
Just because they want the tea now doesn’t mean they want tea later
2026-07-10 00:16:36
1570
Over_Your_Drama :
It wasn’t a pre order. It’s was the fully informed part, of the consent. It was giving her an opportunity to say no thanks.
2026-07-11 02:50:02
16
n0t_lily73 :
You know who is a consent king? Ilya rosanov from heated rivalry, he stayed asking Shane if he was okay before during and after
2026-07-09 22:47:14
42
puppykisses98 :
no, because it is that deep. you're right about this take
2026-07-10 14:41:17
206
Haddi :
These comments are sooo scary queen. Consent is needed through EVERY step of the process! I hope other people will be reporting these comments along with me because what is going on here does not need to be normalized!
2026-07-11 00:28:27
17
Oliver :
He wasn’t asking for a blank check. He was stating his intentions to see if it aligned with hers.
2026-07-10 19:12:03
19
Joe :
Literally nothing shown that he wasn’t doing the active process. He was establishing intentions prior to being in her house. Your prior relationship has nothing to do with this specific guy
2026-07-10 03:34:26
15
💗👄💗 :
I knew I'm not insane for thinking this
2026-07-10 12:46:41
43
hi there :
Maybe we’re thinking of different videos? But I’m pretty sure he was basically just saying he doesn’t want to continue the relationship if there’s no chance of sexual relations in the future
2026-07-10 15:43:28
12
User911F15069420 :
What a crazy interpretation of that message
2026-07-10 03:40:41
245
ZeroReality7 :
its not pre-ordering a video-game. its not a transaction, its an experience between TWO people.
2026-07-10 12:06:36
21
Zoe :
You’re right, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
2026-07-10 22:22:08
7
To see more videos from user @sofiaelizabethsbackup, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.