@withethanlap: A lot of nursery rhymes are depressing lyrics sung with nice melodies. #parenthood #parenting #nurseryrhyme #nurseryrhymes #parentinghumor
I learned this in a lecture on fairy tales: these often horrible stories (think Hansel & Gretel) are meant to introduce children to real challenges (hunger, being lost, predatory forest dwellers) while having a parent there to relieve the tension (happily ever after). This is a bonding moment, where the child learns that the parent is a safe haven, a guardian that will protect them. This creates secure attachment through „overcoming“ these challenges together narratively.
2026-07-27 13:02:25
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🐱Crazy cat mom🐱 :
I know this isn’t classified as a nursery rhyme but I know what you mean. Have you ever listened to or read the lyrics to?” you are my sunshine.” 😳
2026-07-10 11:48:58
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Melbae80 :
We never realized it as kids either 😂
2026-07-09 22:15:59
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amanda b :
Bc back in the 1800s and early 1900s they needed a way to settle the kids and enjoy life so they made songs of the terrible life back in the day…..
2026-07-09 21:38:08
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Samantha Schultz :
My kids love spider pig from the Simpson, I couldn’t think of a nursery rhyme when they asked one day and that’s been the song since lol
2026-07-24 03:58:23
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graceagain_ :
I also think of this! I say instead when I sing it “when the bough breaks, my baby won’t fall. Because I’ll catch my baby, cradle and all” I don’t sing the other sad ones except for ring around the Rosie and we say “achoo achoo”
2026-07-11 04:15:43
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Amanda Kay Townsend :
And this is why I never sang any of those nursery rhymes to my kid. It was straight up country tunes and nirvana to put him to sleep. 🤣
2026-07-10 22:39:11
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cman0351 :
And Humpty Dumpty
2026-07-09 21:48:33
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reminiscer :
My exact thoughts, also ring around the rosies is about a deadly plague.
2026-07-24 13:27:28
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alysharamirez2 :
Jack and jill
2026-07-11 09:10:40
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Allie :
Ring around the Rosie’s
2026-07-14 11:13:40
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lifelessonswithmom :
oh my gosh yes!! I never noticed this until I had a baby and I'm like uhmm this is not happy ideas 😂😂 needless to say we stopped those songs pretty quickly
2026-07-10 03:02:13
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Shawn Lawson :
We switched Rock a bye baby to say not little baby. No not at all.
2026-07-10 11:30:56
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Laci :
Humpty Dumpty is about King Henry’s death.
2026-07-10 05:20:33
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Apreschoolteacher :
I work hard in the classroom to switch the words to less tragic and scary. Like the little old lady " perhaps she will cry" and " she is full of course" .
2026-07-10 11:54:04
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Cora Paige :
I am reading about this in a book right now. It’s very interesting!
2026-07-11 07:18:18
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🔥I AM~Dawn🔥 :
We need to create new nursery rhymes
2026-07-10 17:55:25
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Holli Hinkle :
read the brothers grimm 😂😂😂
2026-07-16 16:54:06
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Abigail Dean Sanchez :
Ring Around the Rosie the song predates the plague, so it's actually just about dancing around flowers and falling down for fun ☺️
2026-07-11 23:20:14
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HeartSunshine :
omg you are so rt! oh no !! lpl
2026-07-24 18:45:15
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AlmightyKingBoogie :
It’s dead!
2026-07-11 04:38:06
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ebonyloveivory :
Apparently the nursery rhyme, "ring a ring o roses" was linked to the Black Plague.
2026-07-10 00:51:35
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user1354123310562 :
now I lay me down to sleep if I die before I wake I pray the lord my soul to take -
2026-07-10 12:43:52
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Mary Loudermilk :
Go down a rabbit hole and research nursery rhymes. You will find out that most nursery rhymes all have terrible back stories. The muffin man is based on a serial killer. It’s crazy once you find out.
2026-07-10 15:44:07
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Katie B :
Why are the parents dead in most Disney movies?
2026-07-10 15:09:44
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