@falatinglwfs: Splitting costs 50/50 with a lover. Tipsy Money Talks. Oakland, CA. July 17th. We'll be having a fun and intimate conversation about money practices. Grab your seat using the link in my bio. I'm a financial advisor and I help my clients, a majority of whom are Black millennial women, navigate their financial needs and goals. A lot of my content surrounds the soft life, personal finance, and financial literacy. So if you're a Black Millennial woman with over $200k in income or $100k in investable assets and are looking for a Black financial advisor, I'd love to help you grow, protect, understand, and manage your wealth. I hope this helps. #datenight #tipsymoneytalks #oakland #personalfinanceforwomen
Falating the Financial Advisor
Region: US
Thursday 09 July 2026 21:35:07 GMT
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Babes :
I’d rather split my living cost with my mamma
2026-07-27 16:02:15
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nikkifacesmua :
They don’t be building they’re supplementing each other’s shortcomings.
2026-07-28 18:35:03
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Billz :
I’ve always said a blanket 50/50 doesn’t make sense. It should be proportionate to your incomes if you’re splitting/dividing responsibilities.
2026-07-25 00:15:05
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swunthaalterer :
You’re supposed to live somewhere with your partner where you’re able to afford it by yourself or where your partner can afford if they make less than you. It would track and even out. Some people come together and automatically think they should get double of everything instead of looking at it like one unit.
2026-07-28 00:05:52
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antonwhyte :
Nobody in the comments understood the point 😂
2026-07-28 14:23:19
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Kat :
I’m loving these conversations. Like learning these lessons through these real stories is so iconic
2026-07-25 15:04:30
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S A B R I N A 💕 :
‼️‼️50/50 also doesn’t make sense if salaries aren’t similar / identical. Financially transparency is required for actual long term planning/building.
2026-07-27 16:13:42
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Asile :
Ohh a conversation I didn’t realize needed unpacking
2026-07-27 14:38:20
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B-more gurl :
If anything it should be in proportion to their earnings. 70/30 60/40 etc…
2026-07-27 12:13:53
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Bunny :
I’d rather buy a home with a friend and gain equity than do 50/50 ever.
2026-07-27 17:15:44
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Rose :
Relationships are never 50-50 and it’s because it’s really hard to bring a business mentality into what is meant to be an intimate relationship. If one partner genuinely enjoys cooking and goes grocery shopping, prepares the meals, how will the other partner compensate them? The compensation is enjoying that meal and creating those memories and at the very end, offering to do the dishes. When you bring dollar amounts into the situation, it takes out the magic, the beauty and the ultimate connection that is meant to be fostered.
2026-07-27 17:19:30
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JustKeisha :
I learned the hard way too unfortunately
2026-07-27 00:53:04
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tara :
I’d never ever go 50/50 with a man. Like… I’ll just keep paying 100 by myself lmao
2026-07-27 15:59:49
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London :
Thissss!!! I ain’t neeeeeeever splitting it with a man
2026-07-27 23:05:07
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chas💗♍️ :
That’s why I would rather be alone or at my moms house helping her bc 50/50 is not good when you still are losing funds and your savings will suffer bc 50/50 isn’t what it’s cut out to be
2026-07-27 20:54:26
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Chartakeyourtime :
I know this ain’t work I think it’s is!!!! ☺️☺️how are you?
2026-07-27 15:21:02
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jtriesyapping :
They both have bad spending habits. It’s really simple.
2026-07-27 23:43:10
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Mrs. Shmurda :
Pls come to Nashville
2026-07-27 18:01:01
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FreedomQueen2.0 :
Lower expenses just means you will probably spend more money on self. Basically they are roommates.
2026-07-27 21:10:03
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stephanie :
Can you record the conversation 😭
2026-07-27 16:27:48
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stef :
i was in the same situation last year, a real eye opener.
2026-07-28 01:14:43
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NightIn :
lol the comments missing the point? 50/50 is fine if you use the remaining money that you saved towards shared goals or even individual goals. Not that 50/50 is bad generally. I think the woman being worse off after the split (or at least having nothing to show for it) creates the narrative that she was done wrong, but if the perspectives were flipped and the guy was worse off the comments would look different (but still wouldn’t address the point you’re making)
2026-07-27 18:51:43
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chocolatebewty1218 :
There doesn’t need to be a “goal” for everyone, they’re able bodied adults who need to pay their share of the expenses.
2026-07-27 13:36:49
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Sara :
staying alive is the goal 🤣
2026-07-27 19:46:29
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birdiewolf :
I try to explain this to people but they don’t understand beyond their intuitive understanding of the math. “We are splitting the costs of everything.” You are also spending more money, so you are eating what you are ‘saving’ from splitting the bills.
2026-07-27 15:37:25
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