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N 🔻 :
i would also like to add the word ultimatum
2026-07-10 02:01:11
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T U N E 3 D 🎧 :
The root problem with "Voice Memo Guy" is the toxic idea that you can "waste time" in dating. Because he views time as a currency, he treats human connection like a business contract. But time is never wasted—every interaction brings clarity and growth. When you filter dating through a strict spreadsheet, you stop seeing people as individuals and start treating them as boxes to check, which completely ruins any chance of an organic connection. Because you cannot change another person, he resorts to applying pressure. Dropping a deadline like "decide by our next date or I'm leaving" isn't a boundary; it's a textbook ultimatum designed to force a change in her timeline. Real boundaries are silent actions. If you aren't compatible, you just leave cleanly. Sending multi-minute voice notes repeatedly offering to leave without actually leaving is just a high-pressure sales tactic meant to wear down her "I don't know" until she gives in. The takeaway is that true communication doesn't require a countdown clock. Healthy relationships require dropping the ledger and removing the fake urgency. When you stop trying to force the destination before you've even started the car, you stop panicking over "lost time" and finally free yourself to let connections either build naturally or dissolve cleanly without resentment.
2026-07-11 22:07:48
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Malum :
Somebody being open about their expectations instead of misleading a person is what is meant to happen 😭
2026-07-09 23:10:45
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Fola Demi :
Why are people acting like they have never been on dates before
2026-07-09 23:25:31
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★ idksueme_ig ★ :
like sorry he's not even in a relationship with the woman, they are DATING and it alright to say that you don't want to keep dating a person if they aren't willing to do something cause that's the ENTIRE point of dating
2026-07-09 22:24:19
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Smalls :
You clearly said leveraging of power was coercion, you don’t think giving an ultimatum of we can’t see each other is leveraging power?
2026-07-10 12:59:42
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Surry :
isn't crazy that the man in the voice note was so perfectly clear and yet here we are 😭
2026-07-10 00:14:31
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viktah 310 :
I wish there was a way to block a topic on tiktok
2026-07-11 08:00:46
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baniel :
I’m crine you put so much effort into this nice exit tickets 🙏🏿🥹
2026-07-09 22:27:34
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insaintwetrust :
I think ppl are genuinely forgetting SHE invited him over and then he sent the voice message to clarify what they were getting into because SHE said idk when he initially asked
2026-07-11 06:07:33
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888 :
Ppl say they want honest communication until ppl actually communicate honestly
2026-07-11 17:08:58
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ɪᴠʏ🪴 :
“he picked clarke” im cryin😭😭
2026-07-10 02:06:17
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Kjbta :
I don’t get it. This is something you can very easily say no to. Why are people upset?
2026-07-12 03:06:07
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Fantasy Delusional📚🧶🧵🐶 :
Also a lot of people saying that he should of take the "i don't know" as a NO, but the fact is that after that "I don't know" SHE is the one who reach out to HIM for a second date at HER house so he send the voice memo to clarify and remind her of what he wanted and that she said she wasn't sure she wanted the same thing.
2026-07-13 10:03:48
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▲◐ :
thought i was going insane because if i were in that situation i would've said "okay lets end it there" and blocked him??😭😭 i don't know why this was even a conversation
2026-07-18 12:40:41
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Alski1200 :
People need to also learn the definition and difference between an ultimatum and boundary. People definitely uses those terms interchangeable when they're not the same.
2026-07-10 05:28:30
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st0n3r_catz :
My grindr is full of men who ask me every day for relationship I just say no and move on and Im pretty sure that isn’t coercion
2026-07-23 05:35:22
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Anton ☭ :
This discourse is fascinating to me as a gay man.
2026-07-10 20:47:03
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maybeemorgann :
So do y’all want people to be upfront with what they want from y’all or nah
2026-07-10 19:27:25
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Andrea! :
Words have lost meaning on this app
2026-07-09 23:55:38
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Meskie :
i would say manipulation but that was a private memo that i didn't need to know about. would have been perfect if he'd asked BEFORE tbe date but we cant all be perfect sigh
2026-07-09 23:31:51
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JessicaLynnBailey :
pressure plus ultimatum 🫠
2026-07-10 00:46:34
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Makittuq :
you are hilarious 😭
2026-07-09 23:25:14
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j :
THANK YOU, oh my god. i felt like i was going insane w all these videos especially the creator you showed because they (other people) were just lying in the comments about these words!! it’s so harmful.
2026-07-10 22:40:39
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