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Thursday 09 July 2026 22:38:03 GMT
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Kwabena Ampong :
such a family is a blessing! Kobi you don't know what you're missing.
2026-07-10 06:17:18
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👑💫Empress DORIS 💫👑 :
I think her mother said something that kobby doesn't want to tell the lady for her to feel bad about her mother
2026-07-10 10:41:21
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General :
the guy is not ready to settle down with the lady.
2026-07-10 01:36:13
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Beatrice :
why am I in support of the guy😳
2026-07-10 09:30:38
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KingShika Thrives Regardless :
From my perspective, the main issue here is the mother's level of involvement. Based on the conversation, this is a man who is getting to know your daughter and becoming familiar with the family. He is approaching the relationship with marriage in mind, but I think the situation has reached a point where the mother's involvement is becoming excessive. He is an adult with his own principles, values, and way of living. It is understandable to desire that he grows spiritually or becomes closer to God, but that is ultimately a personal journey. When that encouragement begins to feel like pressure, it can become overwhelming rather than supportive. I also question some of the practical involvement, such as regularly sending him food or taking responsibility for aspects of his personal upkeep. While these actions may come from a place of love and care, they can unintentionally blur healthy boundaries. Instead of allowing the couple to build their own relationship, it can start to feel as though the relationship is being closely managed by a parent. I believe the man should communicate respectfully and establish healthy boundaries. At the same time, the daughter also has a responsibility to gently tell her mother, "I appreciate your love, your concern, and your guidance. I will always come to you for advice when I need it, but I also need the space to build and navigate my own relationship." I also think adding him to the family group before marriage may be premature. While the intention is likely to make him feel welcomed, it can unintentionally create unnecessary expectations and pressure. Relationships need room to grow naturally. If, for whatever reason, the relationship does not work out, both families may end up dealing with unnecessary disappointment and emotional complications. Overall, I believe the intentions are good, but there needs to be a healthier balance. Love, support, and guidance are valuable, but so are boundaries, autonomy, and allowing two adults the space to build their relationship in their own way.
2026-07-10 13:00:40
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Edinam💥🌳🦚 :
The woman might genuinely like him but what she did was too much
2026-07-10 06:13:24
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Bibie :
I understand Kobby to an extent. But he could have just talked to Eyram about it instead of just ghosting. That makes me doubt his intentions
2026-07-10 09:25:45
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ok_ramsey :
Bro saw the signs early and left !😂
2026-07-09 23:03:58
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💞💞Mizz Lady frimpz 💞💞🇬🇭 :
In my humble opinion the mother was doing a little too much
2026-07-10 11:09:02
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Dharc :
the lady is deeply hurt sorry Eyiram
2026-07-10 06:16:53
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💜🎀Efia 🎀💜 :
He should have communicated with her
2026-07-10 07:56:28
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A. J :
the thing sef dey funny me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
2026-07-10 09:23:06
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Vinny :
He is right I will also be uncomfortable 😭😭
2026-07-10 07:52:46
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Nat Stan :
GH version of "Brooke and Jubal in the morning"
2026-07-10 14:23:12
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Ato Kwamena Adams😎 :
The mother is just being happy for her daughter and I don’t think there’s something more to that but Kobby too could’ve communicated something to his girlfriend to talk to her mom. Ghosting the girlfriend was way too off for this
2026-07-10 06:57:08
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AmaVee❤️ :
The pressure increase or decrease 😂😂😂😂😂😂
2026-07-11 22:16:59
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QOBBY :
This is a lesson for parents to know thier boundaries when two adults are in relationship🙂
2026-07-09 23:59:57
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Denzel :
The guy doesn,t like stress
2026-07-10 07:59:43
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Msphina🥀🤍 :
Mother in laws please respect your boundaries not everybody was raised with love and affection.. some where raised in a hard way dat their parents has never said I love u or sorry to them moreover the guy wasn’t ready..
2026-07-10 09:00:37
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𝒟𝒶𝒶𝓀𝓎𝑒𝒽𝑒𝓃𝑒☆ :
Kobby u just earned my respect bro very principled 🫡
2026-07-10 09:25:48
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.erd :
Boundaries🤝...
2026-07-10 00:23:56
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Seysey :
Some people are loved at home. Others are also not so loved. So both concerns are valid.
2026-07-10 08:48:06
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