@maxlom_notes:  1. After interviewing violent offenders, researchers found that clothing was rarely the deciding factor when they described choosing a target. Many talked instead about small behaviors that suggested someone might be easier to approach, isolate, or intimidate without attracting attention.  2. The way someone walks often mattered more than their appearance. Hesitant movements, constantly looking at the ground, appearing lost, or seeming mentally somewhere else were repeatedly described as signs of vulnerability. Predators often search for the path that looks easiest, not the person who looks most attractive.  3. Distraction can quietly change how someone is perceived. Looking down at a phone, wearing headphones, or being completely absorbed in something else reduces awareness of what’s happening nearby. That doesn’t cause crime, but it can make an offender believe they have a better chance of succeeding unnoticed.  4. Confidence isn’t about looking fearless or acting aggressive. Simple behaviors like walking with purpose, noticing your surroundings, and responding quickly to unexpected situations can signal that you are alert. Offenders often avoid uncertainty because it increases the risk of being interrupted or identified.  5. None of this means responsibility belongs to the victim. The responsibility always lies with the person who chooses to commit the crime. Understanding how predators look for opportunities isn’t about blaming women-it’s about recognizing patterns that researchers and offender interviews have revealed for decades. 💭 Which everyday habit do you think makes people look more vulnerable than they realize? 🔔 Follow for more about psychology, human behavior, and hidden social patterns.

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creative.discord
creative.discord :
That’s why not a single soul approached me, when I walk alone. I walk with purpose, confidence and awareness looking straight into everyone’s eyes. And I’m an attractive person.
2026-07-11 09:10:35
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gramazon2
Gramazon :
SITUATIONAL AWARENESS & CONFIDENCE
2026-07-10 22:30:07
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lindagreen8383
Linda Cade :
What do you notice first
2026-07-10 21:27:23
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kelliecase0
kelliecase0 :
67 yrs old here. I was raised to walk like you have a purpose & that you own the place! When I use my cell, I stop to use it, I don't walk while looking at it or text. And I'm ALWAYS aware of my surroundings & a way to get safe. Having to be prepared for any type of assault is not new. I've passed this down to my daughters & they passed it to my grand daughters.
2026-07-10 21:36:13
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realisticholisticmama
Steph V :
The worst thing we can do is be wrapped up in our phones while we’re walking around. I don’t even ever let myself wear both ear buds - only one - so I can still hear my surroundings.
2026-07-12 15:06:04
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jenarichards8
Jena Richards :
My daughter used to look at me weird if we were walking down a sidewalk and I had to stop to use my phone. I always stop and put my back to a wall before using my phone. When she asked why I told her because predators will use your distraction with your phone to try and come at you. With my back to a wall they have to approach where I can see them. Because I’m aware of my surroundings they are less likely to approach me. Now she is 22 and does the same thing, but so does my 14 year old son. I’ve taught him the same things. Situational awareness is key to survival.
2026-07-11 13:56:17
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harudobiegirl
DobermomStaci❌ :
I walk with confidence and make solid eye contact with other people as i walk.
2026-07-11 00:49:49
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k8dlady
K8Dlady :
Not only do I walk with my head high, but I make it a point to make eye contact and say hi to anyone I feel uneasy coming near me.
2026-07-11 03:12:25
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euphemiagold0
Bridie 🇳🇿 :
Situational awareness! Always scan, walk with purpose and confidence. But also take other precautions like not going running by yourself through isolated areas. Don’t take short cuts where no population.
2026-07-14 05:50:21
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rebekahchild
Rebekah | Life |UGC✨ :
Being aware of your surroundings is literally a must
2026-07-11 21:38:52
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pearl_blue85
Pokearoo 🇨🇦 🍁 :
Everyone wants us safe.... how about stop attacking us
2026-07-14 12:40:44
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anna14596
DorrisPower :
constantly reminded by my partner to be aware and be prepared. you never know
2026-07-12 12:58:13
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mariafelix2699
Lily :
Always aware of your surroundings. Excellent points.
2026-07-11 03:25:49
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rockerchick6
Kari B :
I’m more aware of my surroundings everyday even in broad daylight it doesn’t matter
2026-07-10 23:22:40
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easterhobbit
Becky Easter Like the Holiday :
I walk with a 90 pound German Shepherd and I regularly tell people she is working so she cannot stop for okay time. I also do NOT move out of the way in the sidewalk with her. I walk with purpose and let people move out of my way.
2026-07-10 22:18:17
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lia.mv82
Lia MV :
People on cell phones are annoying.So unaware of their surroundings.
2026-07-14 10:05:20
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user1601770819852
user1601770819852 :
Kellie are you from N. Y.?
2026-07-10 23:27:40
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princessjackie39
Princess Jackie :
I don't engage if I think their intentions aren't good
2026-07-11 14:23:40
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hiimbby
Jasmin 🌺 | Founder of Matua’z :
This
2026-07-12 00:19:05
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donnamae7777
Donna Mae :
Inattentiveness
2026-07-11 01:44:16
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tiktokflock56
user9837680456240 :
Vulnerability.
2026-07-11 03:22:44
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michellelees4
Michelle Lees :
if im on my own, im nervous looking tbh
2026-07-11 23:27:26
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inuyftfhfhfhdh
Poppy :
I’m tired
2026-07-11 23:26:04
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bamboleo19
Harriet :
That’s why I’ve stopped wearing headphones in public. I used not be able to leave the house without music to listen to but now I’d much rather be fully aware of my surroundings.
2026-07-13 20:04:20
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annegrayart
Annabelle Design :
Phones
2026-07-11 19:42:38
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