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Lexapro abuse :
people are talking about consent but fail to recognize he didn't consent to his voice note being posted publicly
2026-07-10 06:41:14
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Literally.Django :
They’re acting like he’s obligated to entertain her on a second date without his own conditions and it’s so wierd😭
2026-07-10 05:26:43
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CSLewis :
not being in a relationship is NOT A PUNISHMENT
2026-07-10 13:56:57
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꒰✧˚🦋˚Ori˚🦋˚✧꒱ :
Not going on a second date with someone is not a threat!!!
2026-07-10 14:41:52
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SynMetal :
He's not entitled to her body, and she's not entitled to the second date. He communicated what he was looking for and put the ball in her court. That's not coercion, that's communication. I wouldn't have said it in a voice mail but I'm gonna give him the benefit of the doubt and say he may have said it in a voice message because he may not recognize social cues and just didn't want her to feel pressured, she was able to decide on her own in the comfort of her own home without fear of retaliation.
2026-07-10 14:25:39
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Guyonthetable :
This has taught me that the internet, despite constant calls for us to be educated about consent, knows 0 about what consent looks like.
2026-07-10 12:17:57
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Jeff Johnson :
Yeah, a lot of people are letting their personal trauma dictate how they feel about this
2026-07-10 11:56:17
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queminga :
Also, this was a second date 😭 they just started talking it would take nothing to just reject him and move on
2026-07-10 03:29:51
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The_Doctor🇧🇷✝️ :
he did nothing wrong because he was like, “Do you want this? No. Okay than we are not compatible.” I don’t know why people keep inventing things
2026-07-10 04:24:24
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davidpierce389 :
He does not owe you that second date!!!
2026-07-11 18:10:10
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Cobalt :
Mind you they’ve been on ONE date. They have no attatchment to each other
2026-07-10 13:36:11
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goldengarden :
The whole point of dating is to determine compatibility. Breaking it off with someone who doesn’t want what you want is what you’re supposed to do!
2026-07-10 13:20:42
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theecrabman :
Honestly the most objective and rational take I’ve seen on this subject
2026-07-12 21:51:25
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Lamont Morrison :
It's because people automatically assume ultimatum means manipulation. When a boundary is a ultimatum as well.
2026-07-10 06:46:52
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BobbyIII :
Yeah it really doesn’t matter how he said it. He got his point across and communicated what he wanted. She is free to not keep dating him and he made that clear.
2026-07-10 07:11:24
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JotaroMyBeloved :
Why was this put online at all? Not everything needs to be made public.
2026-07-10 18:43:18
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Dante :
he isn’t saying “if we don’t do this, then I won’t do Y” Relationships are mutual, he’s not withholding anything by choosing to not pursue the relationship any further
2026-07-10 07:21:50
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Datdawg :
Yeah, so I actually took the time before I made another comment to listen to the voice memo and genuinely what is everyone talking about and getting upset for?
2026-07-10 20:12:48
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Kris :
they would rather her have her time wasted than her be able to make an informed decision, that's beyond me
2026-07-10 16:44:21
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Iron WAAAGH jawz :
Everyone wants open and honest communication until they hear open and honest communication.
2026-07-10 17:23:56
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VogueAltitude :
Not continuing a relationship is not a threat
2026-07-10 21:25:46
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🥷🏿 :
Idk why people act like “dealbreakers” dont exist in the talking stage
2026-07-10 10:39:56
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Alex :
I’ve accepted that this is one of those “feelings vs material reality” thing that happens so often. She might FEEL coerced but he was not actually coercing her. Just like how you can feel attacked even when nobody is attacking you or even thinking about you. Our feelings do not make the shape of the world, they are a response to the world and it’s our responsibility to regulate and manage them
2026-07-10 13:11:33
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Daisy Maelstrom :
one thing I've learned about this is how many people don't know what certain words mean
2026-07-10 06:25:39
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Lilac :
People turning this into a philosophical debate when it’s the most straightforward things ever😭
2026-07-10 14:29:50
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