@litemindedtherapy: So many people commented on my last video about feeling more comfortable one-on-one than in groups to say, “I’m actually the exact opposite.” And that experience deserves its own explanation too. Some people feel more like themselves when the attention is spread out, the pressure to keep the conversation going is shared, and there’s room to move in and out of connection without it being noticed. So this one is for the people who light up in a group but suddenly feel awkward, exposed, or overly responsible when it’s just them and one other person. You’re not necessarily bad at intimacy or incapable of depth. Sometimes your nervous system just connects more easily when there’s a little more space. #socialanxiety #nervoussystem #therapytok #anxietytok #therapysession

Alivia Hall | NYC Therapist
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hazel_____06
Hazel :
I’m the opposite I’m better 1 to 1
2026-07-10 11:10:07
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nerdywordynails
Sarah :
I used to be better one on one but now I kind of prefer slightly larger groups bc it alleviates the social pressure
2026-09-02 16:23:46
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strawberbsies
🐒 :
im the opposite
2026-07-11 04:52:23
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bubbelgumbitchno1
Tove :
I'm like this, prefer to socialise in groups of 3 or more. I've never heard anyone else say it, everyone always say they prefer or are more comfortable with one on one.
2026-07-10 19:09:44
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lydiabaking
Lydia baking :
I’m the opposite! It’s funny noticing how some friends change in group settings too
2026-07-11 14:36:54
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klotemosseltje
🌸 :
im the opposite lmaoo
2026-07-10 18:35:29
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j.antygirl
June 🌌 :
I am so funny in a group! I can really make people laugh and enjoy them self, but I feel so awkward one on one. Is anyone like this?
2026-07-12 01:58:08
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jcous95
Jcous95 :
I hear so many people say 1 to 1 is easier, so glad to hear the flip side - gives me a break to recharge and not be switched on the whole time!
2026-07-10 16:03:32
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citizen6831
S^n :
I’m the exact opposite, how tf do ppl do groups
2026-07-11 09:42:14
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konijin
Nynke :
ohmygod you have no idea how seen I feel right now. I've never heard anyone talk about this but one-on-one interactions have been a lifelong struggle for me
2026-07-11 21:43:08
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cg70714
cg :
In the opposite I hate groups
2026-07-11 06:59:24
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idontknowww2345
Gatljus :
yes. The group has to be small though so I still feel like I can be apart of the conversation
2026-07-11 01:09:04
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azia :
I noticed it’s because a lot of people expect me to carry the conversation or/and never ask me anything back. I leave feeling drained and bored. One to one with people I enjoy being around is fine but with most people I’d rather interact with them in group settings only.
2026-07-10 20:10:05
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ninelivesnoir
𝔏𝔦𝔩𝔦𝔱𝔥🌿 :
i'm very introverted so a lot of people assume i prefer 1 on 1, however i do like group conversations so much more. there is no awkward silences, less pressure on you to keep the convo going, to ask questions, etc. and once i have had enough socialization i can just check out lol.
2026-07-11 18:51:14
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sheeenar
🕒ᵉᵃʰ :
a group of 3 or 4 or even 5 is ideal for me 😭 i get so nervous and don’t know what to say, even with someone i’ve known for years !!!
2026-07-11 10:05:36
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juliawiklund5
juliawiklund5 :
Omg this is so me! Never hear anyone agreeing to this😅
2026-07-11 16:24:34
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bubbi582747
Bubbisss :
This is exactly how I feel! So nice to hear someone say it, 1 on 1 seems so intense to me. I want to get better at it tho
2026-07-11 08:58:31
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1girl2kittens
1girl2kitties :
I'm much more myself with just one person
2026-07-11 22:11:03
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dianannananana
dianannananana :
Definitely the opposite
2026-07-12 14:30:21
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alegriadalina
🍂🪐Ali🪐🍂 :
I'm the opposite 💀
2026-07-10 19:21:40
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sophiemallender
Sophie Mallender :
What's the opposite? groups.. ahhh. but one person.... locked in.
2026-07-10 16:46:09
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eykari
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isn’t it usually the other way around
2026-07-11 21:53:11
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ellavirva
e l l a :
yes, part 2 please! this is me 100%
2026-07-10 18:18:29
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honeypacklover
saffron 🐌 :
That’s why I love when there’s no awkward silence, silence is okay
2026-07-11 01:00:46
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appleuser3524976
Rainy :
Im the opposite. I prefer 1 on 1. Im good at keeping the conversation going and easily overstimulated
2026-07-11 16:08:26
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