@jheflin17: You didn't sign up to miss bedtime to provide. But here you are. Too trapped to quit, too young to retire, watching the years go by from the driveway. Your kids don't remember your job title. They remember if you were there or not. I was that guy at 34 and what changed wasn't a new job. It was building one small thing on the side that gave me hours back instead of taking more. And it only took a few hours a week to get the ball rolling. If you want to see what helped my family have more, ‼️Follow + comment "PATH" & I'll walk you through it all.